Hello everyone, Bear with me, as this is a hard post to write, but it needs to be done if not for anyone else...for me. I went to work for my first Escort Agency 2 months after my 18th birthday. I worked the phones as the thought of doing anything else terrified me. The business intrigued me, it was unpredictable, hectic, bizzare and addictive to say the least. Never had I met such unusual yet exciting people. Maybe it was that I found it a bit dangerous and definately not something I would have predicted Id love doing, that kept me working. I went from answering phones, to managing agencies. It was then that I began to think about the fundementals of it all. If these agencies were making a rediculous amount of money, doing one shot deals, because no client was going to call back after the rip off tactics I had witnessed...then wouldn't an agency that actually provided the gentleman with exactly what they wanted and got the repeat business from each client...wouldnt they make 3-4 times the amount of money these rip off places were pulling in...and so The mens club was born. What a mess this was. I had just found the internet world of escorting. Hell I didnt even know review boards existed. With a few friends I set out to try and prove my theory.
I had a firm belief that you guys have definately got some raw deals over the years, you had been robbed, beaten up, lied to and taken advantage of and I was going to make a difference, I was going to work with you all instead of against you.
My first move was to establish a working relationship with a core underground client network, which shall remain nameless. I was to get a few of my girls together and bring them to a party they were hosting. of course all of the girls flaked and I was left to figure out what the hell to do now. I did the best thing I could think of...I got dressed and I went to that party...no girls to offer, but it was inportant that I went, that to me showed my integrity and I thought I would at least gain their respect. Instead, I ended up walking out of this party, I couldnt believe the way they referred to the girls out there..the things they sat around and discussed...it was worse than high school shit. I couldn't provide girls to this group knowing the way they would be ultimately treated, even if they would never hear the things said. If I did, I would be no better than these guys.
I continued to plug away with a few girls, who were unreliable, flaky and to be quite honest a pain in the ass. Shortly thereafter gfeaction emerged and my little msn community grew to well over 200 members.
After months of trying to get the girls where they needed to be I finally was fed up and decided that the only way i was ever going to pull this off was to go out and do it myself.
Im no model, my body isnt perfect but I was going to give it everything i had. I talked my best friend of 12 years into working with me as a team. We were going to be everything the guys wanted and more. We burst onto this scene like an explosion. We had great reviews and my phone never stopped ringing. Finally I had done it. I had given the industry back something...I had make a difference....and what did the industry give me in return...well thats the difficult part. We have accused of having STD's, we've been called by providers asking that we quit charging such low fees, and just recently after an anonomous call to the Chandler police department was made about a major prostitution RING that was operating in my home. Ya gotta give em credit for at least beefing up the story a bit.
I know many of you have heard about this, hell someone even found it funny enough to comment on this board about it. I guess I just have no sence of humor because I wasn't amused at all. Ive had to pull my page down, I havent been able to work and this morning my car was reposessed. The industry that I had given everything I had to, ultimately caused me to lose everything. I have to tell you that nothing makes you open your eyes like going from buying anything you wanted to counting change for bread and cheese to feed your kids. Anyway...the purpose of this post is just this, everyone here is on the same side, take care of each other, protect one another...with the number of people here noone should ever run into trouble. Be loyal to those that serve you...its not all about you and most importantly be deserving of what is offered or you shouldnt be here at all. I hope this story somehow opens some eyes, and makes others appreciative of their achievements. This is my contribution to the industry, if it has to end like this so be it, but If possible I will try and make something good come out of it. Thanks for listening...I havent completely given up yet, Im just kind of fading into the background a bit to lick my wounds and figure out whats next for me. Take care, tammi

There are some guys that take care of their girls.  I am one of them.  I am not a hobbyist because I usaully just see my own group of friends.

But I can guess by the posts who the gourp of guys are.  And I am not surpised that someone would try to take you down with rumors and the police.

But there are some great girls and some great guys, you just have to be able to discern who they are.

but you were seen on the drug crimes section of ole Joe's site not under the sex crimes. So what gives?

Maybe it wasn't the guys at all.  Perhaps your competition turned you in because they didn't want to lower their rates to compete with you guys. Just a thought.

I can sympathise with you....but you are in a cuthroat buisness where some of them feel if they can get 20 they must be able to get 40.AS for the LE issue, it must have been PRETTY blown up for them to go that far!The one thing bout law in america that sucks,you should be able to know who your acusser is! You are now more wiser and remember, keep your friends close........
Have a good one and I hope things do get better!

Hey Tammi, I can't say I've been there, but we've all been down at one time or another. You just have a great way of looking at things and doing things, not only for you but for other people too. And with that attatude I'm sure you will be back up and running again.
I feel somewhat responsable for bringing this all on, with my post about you and Crystal. For that I am truly sorry. Good luck with everything you do.

Vampy

I'm sorry to hear that you've had such a tough road to hoe. Truthfully this is and always will be a tough business to be in...either as a hobbiest or provider. Truthfully any provider who becomes as visible as you and your partner did is at risk.

You need to manage your risk and carefully consider your options. From your post I think you make us "Johns" out to be much more than we are. As I've repeatedly told my ATF...all men are assholes...some of us are nice assholes and some aren't but dig deep enough and it's there.

I honestly don't think anyone set you up or "turned you in" you just got to visable in an area that doesn't appreciate the service you provide. I hope you bounce back....

All the Best

I know alot of providers here and I can't think of 1 who really worries about what anyone else is charging.

Personally I think it's a case of poor planning and worse judgement...

You run a high volume "bordello" in a single family residential area with a child (or children) present in the home (not at time of service I assume) and it's a question of WHEN not IF you have a problem...

Truthfully they should have gotten an apartment as soon as practical and established some cash reserves as well. I'm truely sorry for the gals problems but her post makes eveyone out to be at fault somehow. There are plenty of great independents out there...TLC is the only agency I ever see post here and for all the "issues" I've had with them Taylor seems to run a classy (if expensive) operation. I've always found Kara's posts to be delightful and I know Danny (and others)thinks very highly of her. As for us hobbiests, well I think most of make our way thru the options pretty well. Yes we may get ripped off or abused once in awhile but as Kara pointed out to me in another thread, the gals take a much greater risk.

Sorry, but I'm not much for pity parties...

Not rude at all..don't sweat it. Had something a client had left and I had put away and forgot about it...my own fault really live and learn...a mistake none the less..thats the only reason I can think it would be on the web site..I couldnt find it tho

excellent point

You probrally didn't see it up on the website, cause the Pics are only there for 3 days, then they are taken down. If you are just now looking It makes sense why you didn't see.

I hope everything works out for you.  If you need anything, let me know.