New to this hobby. First time post. Have been a paying TER member for the research. Great site. For the guys: My natural progression over the years has been strip clubs, nude strip clubs, nude strip clubs with VIP booths, massage parlors, private massages and now the occasional provider. Is this a natural progression for most? Two of my buddies in other states hobby more frequently but followed this same path. I would hobby more locally if not for the fear of running into someone in a place that might be difficult to explain. Any insight from the Ladies would be welcome as well.

Hi,

This is my first post also.  My progression was nude strip clubs and then the Bunny Ranch in Reno area then a provider then back to the Bunny Ranch and now I am thinking about seeing a provider again.

Kevin

I followed a similar path to the "dark side".   Not sure it is natural but it is common.  
Viva the evolution!
Good that you found TER. It is a great resource to help you find safe quality hobby experiences. About the concern of running into  someone....well  if you do they shouldn't be there either!   The ladies and gents are very discrete and will help you avoid possible touchy situations. Welcome, now get  busy....  the ladies are counting on you! LOL Hey who knows from strip clubs to mayor ??? It can happen.    Where there's a willy there's a way.

i thought that there were guys who like strippers and guys that like escorts.
and of course, guys that like both.

i dont think any quality provider schedules visits so closely that "running into" someone would be an issue but you might want to wear a disguise if you are planning on being really really early.

About a year ago I was coming out of a bedroom at an agency incall location and as we (the provider and myself) were walking down the hall, a chubby fellow (mostly unclothed) popped out of the second bedroom on his way to the bathroom, running into us.  I didn't know him, but felt embarassed for him ... Later on it seemed funny.

Independants schedule their appts so the "running into anyone" doesn't happen.  Now if out in a store or restaurant and you see us we will not acknowledge you as we don't want to be recognized either as we could be with family and/or friends who DON"T know what we do.

So do your homework to verify the gal and you shouldn't have any problems except deciding who to see next!!!

Misty

Maybe a few massage parlours over the years.  I never particularly enjoyed strip clubs because sex never seemed to me to be a spectator sport.

Hi,

I understand your point of view, but I don't feel that watching strippers is a spectator sport of sex.

It is just hanging out for a few hrs relaxing drinking and smoking and looking at naked women.

Some guys want to look but not actually be involved with sexual activities.  For me sometimes that is enough.  I still am not real comfortable with the sex stuff but am at a strip club.

K

would never ever come up to you if we saw you out. That is just unethical, however I can't count on my fingers how many times guys have come up and said; 'Hello Anna' and I had to tell the guy that they got the wrong girl and confused me with someone else because I have been with people who DON'T know what I do. And in one case, the guy didn't give up and continued talking to me and insisted that I was THAT Anna. That was harder to explain for the guy I was with at the time.

I have 'seen' several clients out at restaurants but never initiated a talk or even made them aware of that I saw them. It is just a terrible thing to do.

Just my .02 cents

Puss och Kram
Swedish Anna