The landscape has changed.  The fantasy of the hobby has lost some of its glam.  So, in theory if a guy was interested in talking about pretending to have a  GF - how does this meeting/contact happen in this environment.  Assuming the old nicknames/emails have been shut down - new phone numbers, etc.  What's a UTR guy with a very few contacts to do?  I'm interested in the board's thoughts or any special fantasy pm's.