Phoenix
My personal rule is, "If I'm not having fun NOBODY gets to have fun!" I will not do anything that I don't enjoy with anyone that I don't enjoy. That's why I love what I do and it shows.
Yes, there have been and probably will be those who I just won't go there with. The number one reason for me is BAD HYGIENE! If a man doesn't have enough pride in himself to be well groomed/bathed he is an instant turn off to me. There is nothing sexy about B.O. and it certainly doesn't make me want to be close so I'd rather pass. The number two reason would be a bad attitude... that makes even the most attractive person 'ugly'. ;o)
To answer your first question. Do providers ever enjoy sex? My philosophy is very simple in life. Why do things you don't enjoy? Life is simply too short. We should all pick professions that we truly enjoy or have a passion for. I don't think it is any different with in regards to what I do. The day I feel that I don't enjoy it anymore, that is when it is time for a career change. Who knows when that will be, but I know that I certainly won't do it anymore then. I think we can see this trend here in Phoenix more than anywhere else. Providers come and go, and one reason is because they simply can't do it, or it isn't what they thought it was going to be. They don't like it enough (even though I am sure they like the money it brings) However money means very little when or if you are selling your soul. So those girls disappear pretty soon.
You second question. Do I ever say no to clients? Yes, of course I do. You have the right to say no to me, if I am not everything you wanted me to be, and I feel that I have that right too. I have said no to guys who have treated me with disrespect once we met. Or are high on drugs or any other substances. Have I ever said no to an overly obese person? Yes, I have. When I honestly thought that my bed would break from the weight, I had to say no. Did I tell him the real reason? No, I am not here to hurt anyones feelings. Of course the gentlemen got disappointed but I don't think I am doing anyone a favor if I am with someone who I simply can't be with for whatever reason. The session is not going to turn out good, not for anyone. Sometimes when I suspect that a gentlemen hasn't showered for the last 10 hours, then I do suggest a shower. That will certainly add to the excitement to have a clean body to play with.
Now, I am extremely lucky and fortunate that 99% of my gentlemen are very nice, respectful, clean and just plain lots of fun. Who can say no to that? I certainly can't. I just love to have fun 
xoxo
Swedish Anna
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