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you have been posting here for 4 months now and still no reviews....why?

You can only be a newbie for so long.  Sorry but wondering why and just being honest.  Not trying to be mean...just curious.

I am not from here.....My business keeps me in Mexico and South America for most of the year. I only make it up every couple of months. It's a valid question

Hey ive Been on here for 6 years and i dont review and i no lots of Ladys

Thanks,
   I felt a little like I was being beaten down for some reason. I was stood up last night and didn't have the time to enjoy some of these great ladies the last few times I was here. I still like to stay connected just in case.


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  No reviews for 4 months times means he is paying $ 200 a year to support this site and have VIP access, as am I.  And if we choose not to post reviews, that is our choice and ours alone.  End of discussion.

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However, to play devil's advocate,  you're paying the website, not the hobby community at large. When the community looks at a post like this, they see someone who is not contributing and helping to develop and improve the overall status quo. Granted, there may be things going on behind the scenes that the community at large may not be aware of, ie, back-channel interaction, but for most, there's no way to know. And because the community doesn't know, there's going to be hesitation to willfully providing assistance, knowing the history of the phoenix region, and board in particular.

Exactly right.  I've been on this site for a number of years.  I'm not from Phx.  I've seen ladies here. I don't review and I don't give out my personal information.  My money my right.  Misty apparantly is awesome but a bit paranoid at times....

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"Devil's" advocate??? There's just a bit to much righteousness in your post for that, the way I see it.

As SOMEONE's advocate, maybe you can help me understand.

Who exactly is "the community" you're refering to?

Is it everyone involved in the hobby? Just those who hobby and are online? Or are you implying that it is only those involved who meet up to a certain standard?

What specific standards must one live up to to be a good member? Where are those standards written? Who wrote them?

More importantly, who is the high priest(s) (or priestess(es)!) who makes the determination regarding what is or isn't a good contributing member?

Is that you? Are there others? Who are they?

I know one thing, it certainly is above me to make that judgement.

In my opinion (which is all this is), people who think that way are actually detrimental to the whatever the so-called community is! Their approach and thinking is like a cult.

There is no one exact way to think on this subject.

Tolerance and acceptance of individual's choices, Being safe, and Doing no harm... are the only only universal guiding wisdom, as I see it.

Maybe you disagree. So be it it.



HalfHour

Having been a lurker on the boards for the past several years, the thought-process I've described is something I've frequently noticed in this forum. The ones who post that tripe ususally phrase it a little more bluntly than I had (and don't make me go get examples ), but thankfully, I haven't seen too many posters recently that think that way. I hope most of them, if not all, have been driven away by the gradual attitude change here. The board, in its current state, is vastly different from what it had been, but still doesn't change the fact that there had been a history of that kind of thinking here.QFT

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The reason this board was started many years ago before a lot of you guys got into the action was for us hobbyist to see and learn who was offering the services she was advertising and who to stay away from.

It was also a way for the providers to verify us guys to see if we were safe to see. For many years it has helped both the providers and the hobbyist play safe and worry free.

So you guys that don’t like to write reviews but like to play probably read the reviews before you chose who to see and go home without the hassle writing a review. Thank YOU. You should thank the guys that take the time to write them for your benefit and not act all high and mighty because you don’t. You don’t impress any of us.

Writing a review is a pain in the ass it takes time and we try to be as accurate as possibly so the guy who reads it will know if he wants to see her or just move on to the next one.

I don’t write reviews on everyone I’ve seen but I’m sorry I didn’t because some of my bad encounters have gotten bad reviews and I could of saved some guys some $$$ and time.

So get off your ass and write a review if not just thank the guys that do so you can play safe and have fun.

PS. I know for a fact that most providers appreciate a well written review.

So I didn’t make any friends here but so what I got my own friends. And many thanks to all the girls I’ve seen before and the ones I’m looking forward to seeing.