Phoenix
Excellent points, Mya.
Instead of leaving the incall instructions in the car, the gentleman could bring them inside to the lady's apartment and throw them away there. That protects both of us.
BTW, since I'll be around town these days, I'd love to meet you (and some of the other ladies too). I've heard so many wonderful things about you. 
I've been getting pm's and email all day about that review!
At first I wasn't going to talk about it here on the boards, but now SayWhen has mentioned it, I may as well say that I always aim to please the hobbyist and I'm sorry this man wasn't completely happy with our visit together.
Without getting too graphic, it wasn't the typical visit and he asked for some somewhat unusual activities. I don't think he felt I fulfilled them satisfactorily. Perhaps most escorts don't fulfill his requests, and perhaps that's why he's given low scores to ladies in LA with otherwise excellent reputations.
During the same LA trip, I saw another gentleman who wrote quite an enthusiastic review (posted a day or two ago.) Interesting that the same lady can be a 10 one day, the next day a 6.
Anyway, onward and upward.
To Just_Another_Provider, thank you for thinking of my feelings and looking out for a sister.
To SayWhen and the other men who don't know me (and may have doubts now), I'd love to meet you and give you the time of your life!
and what wonderful bases you have… great to slide into head first
Just to add some things I’ve learned along the way…
“Use a hotmail account for email.”
My personal favorite is Safe-mail because it encrypts email messages so they can’t be traced.
http://www.safe-mail.net
Also remember to use a password that uses randomly selected letters and numbers. Such as: E59wk3U. If you use real names for things such as “hobbyist” it can easily be cracked by a hacker. Also, change your password frequently.
“…delete your cookies. Women are smart and can track you with where you have visited.”
Just deleting your cookies doesn’t get rid of spyware cookies. Using a good firewall blocks hackers, makes your computer invisible to anyone on the Internet, and prevents incoming spyware and adware cookies from being installed on your computer.
http://www.zonelabs.com/store/content/catalog/products/zap/zap_details.jsp#benefits
In the unlikely event that a spyware cookie gets through there’s always this:
http://www.safer-networking.org/en/index.html
“Buy a cell phone that you keep at your office just to call us.”
Pay-as-you-go phones are great for this. No monthly statements that get sent home.
“Women are smart” There’s no denying this. The smartest person you ever met is your wife. She reads you like a book. If you are a frequent flyer chances are she already suspects. Most women just can’t understand a man’s need for variety. No way no how. It doesn’t really matter how many security measures you use, she suspects. Too many made-up excuses. Neural impulses travel the speed of an ox-cart and she might have seen you click out of a bulletin board. Too many times she has seen you preoccupied with a smile on your face. But I think most are in denial. She will suffer in silence and will never ask until you make a stupid mistake. The most important thing -- if you chose to continue on -- is to never tell.
Great post Mya