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Is it OK to ask providers about what they offer

PHOMANCHU 40 Reviews 1679 reads

posted 20 years ago

When emailing a provider you have not met, it it OK to ask them questions like do they enjoy or offer DFK, etc.

OverCaffeinated20 years ago2314 reads

NO. (not eom, but could be)

Such questions will cause a lot of them to not reply to your initial inquiry! AFTER you've been verified, if you're polite, you'll probably get some pretty good responses.

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PHOMANCHU20 years ago1483 reads

I thought this and have not done it

but it seems like kind of a waste to go through all of the set up procedures if she is not what you are looking for.

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PHOMANCHU20 years ago2179 reads

Normal snitty responses

Another thought, the usual responses are to look at the TER review, but you really cant count on what you see.

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Jazz Jewel20 years ago1864 reads

Re:Normal snitty responses

There are several national review boards to choose from when doing your research. Most girls have links to their reviews on their site. Does that mean that they have coerced the reviews to be slanted in their behalf? Perhaps with some, but not with all.

It is never appropriate to ask a provider what she offers because all she is offering is her TIME. Anything that may or may not happen, is purely coincidental...... Research research research..... aside from the reviews, look at her posts. Does her intellect match yours? Does she post at all?

Inevitably you will take one for the team - but that is a risk that every person will take REGARDLESS of what is being purchased.

If you are too cynical about what you are finding here, then perhaps this hobby is not for you.

Jazz

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Jazz Jewel20 years ago1941 reads

By the Way

Now that I have read this entire thread (yes all I do tend to post before reading everything ) I am failing to find the snitty answers that you said were present. I think that you have received a very fair and honest feedback from several providers...

Have a great day and good luck with your search!
*kisses*
Jazz

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PHOMANCHU20 years ago2246 reads

Re:By the Way

I mentioned the snitty answers only in the hope of eliminating them which it did. All of the answers were nice as well as helpful.

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CiaraPhx20 years ago1722 reads

First, if you just ask about DFKing, and you use the acronym . . .

you'll probably get an honest response. But really, most GFE's will be girlfriend material. I think what you really want to ask is something more personal, right? Be honest.

Most GFE's will give you just about anything, with the exception of possibly rimming and/or Greek, especially the seaonsed providers. Need I say more? Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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Roxanne_Az20 years ago1469 reads

Not if you want a reply

That's what "reviews" are for. This is a review site so common sense would be to read the full reviews just as a guideline. Chemistry has a lot to do with I how I interect with my friends and I'm not a programmed robot set to do the same exact thing each time. Just as you are probably not the exact same with each lady you encounter. If you want the lady to "keep it real" it's definitely a ymmv in many respects. Since it was recently a topic of discussion, there's no way I'm going to feel an attraction to a guy with poor hygiene, bad attitude or lack of manners but When the chemistry is right, it's WOW! It's best to meet a new lady without having high expectations and you're very likely to have a good time and be pleasantly surprised.