O.K. I'm going to try my best to answer your question. As a married man it is very difficult to have that.It is also very difficult to get away to see some of the beautiful woman that I have seen recently.Basically the only time that I can get away from the house is during the day on Sunday or on a Monday night.And so far the only provider that I have seen as you call it off-the-clock was Sky Silverman (which we met about 3 weeks ago and that was concerning a mutual acquiantence and a matter that I will not discuss here). And to this day I am still amazed very grateful to Sky because I feel that she took the time and went out of her way to meet me for a cup of coffee.And yes I would very much like to meet with most of the providers that I have seen for just a cup of coffee or just to have lunch and  just to talk.I found that most of the ones that I have met are very nice sweet and sincere ladies.I wish that I could set up a day and time to meet and sit and chat with all of them there at the same time and that to me would be such an awesome and incredible experience. And one last thing I am the type of person that if I consider you a friend I would do anything that I could to help a friend out.

to answer your question.


Yes and it lasted for nearly 5 years.  Even though I moved, we kept in close touch and we managed to get together 2 or 3 times.

See my thread Re: Love and you can read what happened.

This is my first posting, but this is a topic that I actually have some substance to respond to.  There is one provider who I never posted a review of because she is so sweet, and wanted to keep her to myself.  Looks and personality!  I know she isn't real active, and is actually getting out of the hobby.  I first saw her 6 months ago or so, and after I saw her a few times, I got the real name and number and we have been friends ever since.  We talk on the phone a couple times a week and update each other on our lives, and we go out to lunch every few weeks.  She is actually a good friend of mine now.  She'll come over and we'll rent a movie.  Sometimes we have sex, sometimes we don't.  That's just my input to the question.

i had some 'friendly' experiences with the ladies, like letting one hour flow into two without any discussion or clock watching. thats just one example.  in that way, it seems like there is some degree of genuine affection between a provider and me.  i would imagine that dg27 and others have seen this as well, but do not always acknowledge it on the reviews because you don't want some joe off the street who has read the review to expect it.  its like an unstated agreement.  do any ladies agree with me???

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I have friendships with a number of the providers, and although I have only once (to date, with one luncheon date pending) spent time off the clock (lunch) with one provider, I do like to engage in email banter with most of the ladies.  I really enjoy this electronic repartee and it most definitely would be considered "off-the-clock" since the providers I email have to spend their time reading and responding to my rather frequent (and manic) emails.  Thanks ladies!! I really appreciate....

Wait a minute!  What's this?  A bill from Chrissy for "electronic counseling services rendered"?  And wait a minute! Here's another bill from Debbie!! And another from Michelle!! Oh my God!  I'm going to have to mortgage the house!!