The looks rating is simple  personal opinion.   So JJ's  rating of a 10 is his feeling, we need respect his opinion and all the gents in this area.  Performance is supposed to based on some criteria. TER  review staff has not enforced  this uniformly. They let many go through at a higher level but recently they changed one of mine to a lower level.  When I presented them with multiple examples of  their inconsistency I got no real response.  They may be starting an effort to make the ratings on performance more consistent with criteria.  Now  for JJ recent review  it seems  a 10 was  correct,  although I did stop reading part way through....  I think I'll wait for the movie!  LOL

..but the key to the hobby has ALWAYS been, find guys with similar tastes, and watch what he posts and get to know him backchannel. That is the best source of info. I have seen a lot of high marks for girls I have seen I do not agree with for sure. But going online and saying she "ain't" all that, well, just would not do it - doesn't seem nice.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. And everyone rates differently depending on the situation. Some guys do not put up bad reviews, is that any less factual (selective ommission).

As for what they write, does anyone ever truly convey a personal experience online well? Nope. Conveying physical feeling is difficult for a lot of folks.

Sooooooooo...... my long winded answer to, JJ, thanks for the info.



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The only real facts one can expect from a review are: 1-Is the girl the one(and still look like the one)in her photo. 2-Does she in fact provide the service she is advertising(massage,f/s,etc)and 3-Is she a rip-off or upsell.

Those are the only facts.  All else is either personal opinion, personal experience(which will very from person to person and may or may not be factual depending on perception), fantasy, or the embellished form of the truth.  And let's face it-some guys will write anything in the attempt for a free month membership, to boost their egos, or for the shill post to receive discounted sessions.  

It really puts a lot of undue pressure on the ladies to have to live up to an experience that some guy may have made up and then wrote about.  Let's get real.....a nice and clean smelling gentleman is definitely a pleasure to be with but a greasy, smelly pig of a guy is not going to receive the same treatment and for him to expect it just intensifies that yuck feeling.

If the reality is that you like a ladys photo and the reviews point to her being legit, well that's a good sign to make a date with her and just let whatever happens, happen.  The fantasy may just be a reality for you.

As for the comment about Candy.......Different guys are attracted to different ladies and if she is the one in a lifetime in looks for him, that's his taste and he shouldn't have to defend himself for that.  We all have different ideas of beauty and beautiful women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.  It's a great place to have so many choices.

And if he wants to write a novel, let him - remember, these are FICTIONAL reviews anyway...

Actually, I think a review with some creativity and romance is great!

As a writer I see many people who cannot write but think they are great writers. I, for one, prefer to read something stimulating and beautiful instead of some meaningless, vulgar sex acts. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Lets talk about reviews. A guy has the time of his life and wants to put it in to words that he felt fits the occasion there is nothing wrong with that. 1st the TER asks you to put it in to your own words, the lady moved the earth for this guy and he wanted to tell you how HE felt. A certain lady moved the earth for me and I wanted write something that befitted my experience. I only wish I could have been a little more eloquent. If you want the nitty gritty paint by the numbers experience then by all means go down to the street corner to get that kind of girl. Most of the ladies here are Rembrandts, Picassos, Renoirs (esp. the ones that post here) their attractive, personable, refined, they even dress up for the occasion if YOU request, if you go to their place its clean, homey and they set a nice mood for a romantic interlude. The GFE experience, it’s a whole lot more than just the nitty gritty, you leave feeling on top of the world. The least anyone could do is write a complimentary review not one filled with four letter words and a bunch of acronyms.

Apparently you have never had the pleasure of meeting Candy. JJ's review was right on the money, IMOP. It was how he felt at the session & how Candy made him feel afterwards. Yes all reviews are personal opinion, but no one should criticize or talk bad another person for sharing there experience.

Vampy