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IsabellaManelli See my TER Reviews 2347 reads
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This may be completely in vain.  But, I get sentimental with the late hours, so please bare with me. It is especially when I get home and find this kind of junk on my computer.

This is dedicated to the angry people...you know, the people that have the , 'who do you think you are attitude' about higher rates and the others that feel compelled to send nasty emails threatening to 'out' me.

Please do yourselves a favor and ask why you have so much anger.  Why do you take the time out of your busy day to feel it and try to hurt others with it?  

I won't go on because a large part of the people reading this are feeling my post is a huge waste of space and haven't the slightest idea why this pertains to this board.  But,it definitely does. More than you know. I do know for a fact that it is reaching another group of people that are guilty of harrassing.  I ask you to look within yourselves, not me.  The answer is there. I sound like a preacher but Yoga helps with this ugly feeling. And lastly....treat others how you want to be treated.  

Okay, off of my soap box.  Thank you for your time.  I'm not looking for any responses.  Just the fact that it was heard from the ones that needed it is wonderful by me.

Ciao,
xoxox
Isabella Manelli

JEFFREY1739 reads

...to their level by dignifying them with a response of any kind.  That is just feeding them fuel.  Forget them, and be above their bullsh**.

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IsabellaManelli1505 reads

sorry to be so personal here...I was just overwhelmed by vendictive harrassing that I know was from TER people this past week and last night.  Sorry for the drama!  I will be removing my VIP membership here.  So, please no more PM's.  I'm not ignoring you!  Email me at [email protected]

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AZJustJack1778 reads

I've felt overwhelmed by life myself lately, so your post resonated for me. Dunno if this will help, but it helps me to remember it.

I believe we absolutely choose our lives, and what and who we will and will not allow in them.

I can't control anyone or their feelings or their issues or whatever problems and vitriol they decide to spew into the world in their moments of angst or self-loathing or hatred.

The only thing I CAN control, is how or even if I react. Most of the time, there is no need-they can say whatever they like, their opinion is not my reality, so it doesn't apply to me.

I know what I know, believe what I believe, I live my life in the manner of MY choosing.

Because that's MY right. Just like it's YOUR right. You deserve no less.

And no one can take that from you, because you have to ALLOW someone to do it.

It isn't hard-it's just a choice. Maybe it takes courage, I can't say.

Maybe it just takes absolute belief in and love for yourself. And THAT can be hard.

When I feel it's too much to bear, I remind myself of this (cause I am too brittle for Yoga-LOL)...

No matter how they may assail you, Be True-for there is also love in the world.

So be true, and choose to live happy, Isabella. None of this nonsense really matters anyway.

JJ

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CiaraPhx3440 reads

I wouldn't want to meet too many in a party environment. That's because my security was threatened a few years back and I'm too involved with artistic venues now and afraid of the reprocussion from some with nasty attitudes. So, that's why I don't go to parties. It has nothing to do with not wanting to meet new people. I'm tempted but scared. I tend to stay to myself now and that way I don't have any head games I have to deal with later on. We all have our crutches and our soft spots. Don't let these people get you down. The main thing to remember is if you're a nice person then your friends, your family and God (or other spiritual aid) are the only people/spirits to please. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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trinity morgana1970 reads

although we havent met I have to say I feel for you.
I was in south florida for a long time and the rates there are alot lower than any other part of the country. im still an active poster on the major indiboard down there and I have seen guys completely shred a girl and drive her to other states just for the simple fact that her rate was over 200.00 (yes i said 200.00) and im only going on your statement about higher rates.So ive seen first hand what harrassing emails will do to a girl :( .I dont know what else your going thru but stay strong
And I hope It gets better for you
Bright blessings

Trinity

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RElawguy2792 reads

This is an extension of the recent comments concerning high price providers like Isabella and Heather Saks (whos looks and reputation require no defense whatsoever).  Once again, we have a barrage of aliases whining about the high prices quoted (as if the poster thinks with enough whining the price will come down).  At least one person had the balls to use his own Ter handle, but the rationale behind the comment is the same:  your price is too high, and therefore I have the right, or obligation, to point this out.
   Like the above named providers, I am also a professional who charges a lot of money to see me for an hour.  Like them, I have practiced for years to learn my craft, and have great oral skills.  If you don't want to, or can't afford to, hire me, that is your choice.  Hire someone cheaper.  It is only in this venue that some people feel the need to publicly chastise those who pracice their craft and charge what the market will bear.
   I have no idea what the alias crowd does for a living, but I presume they are paid what they are worth.  Why do some people feel the need to belittle others who command more than they can afford?  Perhaps in response we should know what these folks make and determine if they are overpriced? If these providers are not worth their asking price, the market will take care of that.       Criticizing the price before even sampling the product is inane and innecessary.  Just move on.
   Once again, I call on the moderator to ban aliases unless it is necessary to warn the TER community of an impending asian bird flu outbreak.

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scooter552035 reads

RElawguy, you have one thing right, this is an extension of the recent comments concerning high price providers.  Once again, I will stick with my original opinion: ladies like Heather Saks and Isabella charge too much.  IN MY OPINION.

Kind of funny, Isabella was not even mentioned in the original recent threads, but jumped in feet first and took it personal.  Took it personal when she was never mentioned in the first place.  Too funny.

Also, do not kid yourself.  I do not believe that posting my thoughts, or opinions on this board, or whining as you call it, will sway any persons opinion.  To paraphrase, Heather posted an add saying "I am coming to town and I am attractive because...", and I posted that in my opinion nobody is attractive enough to charge that much.  Actually, there are many more attractive local ladies for much less.  

If you have a dissenting opinion, then post it.  I will read it for sure, may not agree with it, but will not feel that you having posted an opinion different than mine will damage or alter my life.

And what is this hang up about aliases?  Brother, this entire sight is based on aliases.  Or, if tomorrow I need a lawyer I will find you in the yellow pages under RElawguy?  And all or the ladies have retained their birth names and use them here, right?  Sure

Who cares if I use 50 aliases on this site?  Point is, that ALL 50 of them are an alias of some sort.

Also, dude, I dig that second to the last paragraph.  It basically says "I make a lot, and can afford girls who command a lot, and if you disagree with that then you obviously can not afford it and make no where near the money I do, so shut up".  I wish that I were a car salesman and could sell you your next car.  A fool and his money are soon parted.

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RElawguy2166 reads

As I surmised, you missed the point.  Only in this forum do people have the right to criticize another's services based on price.  If you call me and want to hire me but can't afford it, move on.  I do not expect to see a public comment denigrating me and my service as being too expensive, which could adversely affect my livelihood.  Do you open yourself to such commentary in your business life?
  As far as aliases go, don't kid yourself. Many in this community have met me and know who I am when I post. Same with the ladies. Aliases are sneaky and the refuge of the snide and unreliable.
  Oh , and as far as your last paragraph/comment,  all I was suggesting was that complaining about price without even knowing the provider was childish. Oh, by the way, when I buy a used car, I have it thoroughly checked by a licensed mechanic.  If all else fails, I get to sue the seller for fraud and its all free.  Who is the fool now?

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IsabellaManelli1545 reads

I don't mind that you referred to this post about my comment on Heather Saks.  But, just so there isn't any confusion, I wanted to explain to you that this thread was started because of harrasment to me on a personal level (from TER people) but not from comments on this board. I'm not defensive when someone makes comments about not wanting to pay $$$$. I was saddened when it brought out jealousy and contempt. And that is the only reason someone wouldn't like me.  Cuz, I'm a hell of a nice girl!  And I ain't done nothin' to nobody. I'm a girl just living her life. ; )  

Freedom of speech is a great thing. Just one point though...women with high rates aren't seen commenting about the fact that you are a cheap bastard, or are they and I missed it? It's because I for one, don't feel that.  I realize that you have a choice not to pay my fee. And if it is because you feel no one is worth that price, you feel that individual person isn't worth that price, or you can't afford it, or any other reason on earth..it is your reason and your choice.      

RELawGuy,
I hope that you are stating your opinions for yourself and that is great because it makes for an interesting forum. However, if it to defend me, you are sweet (I read on AzCandy's hobbyology that is considered a white knight? By the way Candy, thanks. Very informative!)

But, I think I just may have gotten that backbone I have been so in need of! So, please don't feel you have to defend me because my feelings are hurt.  Poor Isabella!  I don't want people to feel they need to do that.  I am all better now, really.

I hope we can let the subject of rates die.  But, if it comes up again, You won't see me posting about it, even if directed at me personally.

And again, to everyone that posted on this thread, it wasn't expected.  But, you helped toughen me up!  
Love,

Isabella M

tougher, not harder.  


   

   

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