How far have you guys gone to get something set up with someone you really wanted to see?  I've had my eye on somebody that actually continues to put up new advertising so I know she is still in the biz and I emailed her 3 times over a month and half with no response and finally Monday I sent a one last shot email and she responsed and wanted references which I sent Monday and I haven't heard after sending a FU email yesterday morning.  My question would be at what point am I stalking? Am I alone here in psychoville or have some of you guys been down this path too?

I don't go thru that much trouble, bud.  If she's too busy to answer several emails or phone calls, then I don't want to see her anyway...  

There are PLENTY of hot girls in Phoenix who would love to see you, that answer emails and return phone calls. Forget about her and find another one...

Happy Hobbying...

BD

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This topic has been covered in depth on the General Discussion board.   You may get a wider response to your question there.  Just a suggestion.

ok, I've never visited that board.  Thanks for the heads up.

She must have really triggered something for you to keep after her for such a long time - good luck and hope that if you do ever meet that the experience lives up to your desires.

However - my suggestion would be to move on.  If you have sent a couple of emails and she hasn't bothered to respond, she obviously doesn't need the business.

I would never go to that much trouble to give someone a large stack of dead presidents. If she didn't respond to your references then she doesn't want your money. She sounds kind of flaky to be honest if your references didn't engender any sort of response.
Spend it on one of the many ladies who do want the cash.

Honestly, it's 2 things.  One, I'm in sales so I don't like no for an answer.  2 I do this only occasionally with the girls that I think are hotter than I could get with just a one night stand and drinks at a bar. It's one of the few many reviewed 10 and 10 and girls here.  She is one of the few of our large selection that falls into that catagory for me.  I do limit myself to only a few choices.

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There could be a whole host of reasons why she has not been more responsive. With all the wonderful gals in Phoenix, I'd move onto the next and try coming back to her at a later time if you are still interested in her and haven't had yer socks blown off by someone else. There are a lot of other super gals who would appreciate your business.

I'm a little new to this so I didn't know what was normal and what was outside the norm.  If any of the ladies read this, I'm open Sunday afternoon now I guess if you want to im me.  Thanks.  

I had a situation recently with a guy who wrote and sounded wonderful I was very anxious to talk with him..... BUT.... he left no contact number on his e-mail and when I wrote to him I got a return e-mail asking me to fill out a form before it would go through so HE could avoid spam. If you have this type of thing on your e-mail turn it off if you want a response or unblock the providers e-mail so she will be able to write back. I will not fill out a form like that.... the guy wrote three times (similar to what you are saying) and thought I didn't return his e-mail. I had no way to contact him I didn't get a nasty e-mail just an apology and question of how he could have offended me. I can't even let him know he didn't So make sure your e-mail is not blocking the said providers response. AND NO PEOPLE, I THIS IS NOT THE GUY I WASN'T ABLE TO GET TOGETHER WITH But it does happen.

...You're probably so busy you can take that stance. But SPAM blockers are here to stay, and all it requires is copying a few letters and numbers to prove you're human and not machine-generated spam. I've found a strong correlation between how much women charge and how willing they are to promptly reply to calls and e-mails. I recently went through a bout of self-indulgence and saw four of the highest-rated (e.g., 90 reviews on one chick whose average performance rating is 9.45) and highest-priced escorts in the country, and they were prompt in their responses -- and they all coped with my SPAM blocker. BTW they really were performance 10's by any standard. They delivered in ways I'll always be grateful for.

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I agree with you on this M&J.  The high end ladies only get there one way - by earning it - and that starts with treating this as a business and the guys as valued clients.  They start with answering the phone and/or emails and returning messages!  I continually have to shake my head at the poor customer service that too many ladies practice.  Don't they get that most guys who hobby have had some success in their lives so probably have schedules that they need to work around?

Guys - this goes both ways!  Be a good client!!  If you're calling and/or emailing - give the lady a reason and the means to return your call.  If there are limited windows of time for contact, tell them! If you're looking to book next week, let them know so they can schedule.