I post pics plus post more on site .   I don't mind sending one now and then to someone I have seen a few times as I abhorre pic collectors.  Why is it then after messaging back and forth for 5 to 15 mins  all of a sudden its " can you send a pic?"  If I do not/cannot send then they then do not respond?  

very fustrating and a waste of time as well as causes me to not wish to send any pics because of pic collectors..

 
anyone know?  while I am at it ... instead of a name/loc/ can i see you at such and such time do gents send " hey" "hi" or are u avail?  makes me question these gents as I like to live a full life and schedule my life around their time so any time wasted is time I cannot use for things like  maintenance, personal appts, errands, friend time ect....

Maybe there are a myriad of pretenders or dreamers that would like to see a provider however, they have no funds or they have nothing better to do than play picture collector.  We get similar calls in my profession. These people want to ask 1000 questions and have no intention to hire anyone.  Then there are good clients that are sincere and question the pics they see as maybe misrepresented or old. I have asked for a current pic if I can't see their face or if it appears that their age may be extremely understated. I had someone ask me for my pic and if I wanted their pic, interesting... I think that some people utilize text messaging to avoid difficult questions...

Seems like the real answer is because so many gals post false or misleading images and the guy generally expects that if things look too good to be true, then they usually are fake.  It is extremely uncomfortable to show up someplace and find that the person you were intending to visit does not even exist. The providers that routinely post multiple photos, like yourself, are very much appreciated.  So simply send a copy of one of those same photos in the 1st or 2nd response message, even without being asked for pic.  If the guy is a pic collector, he could have pulled the same photo from your site anyway and if he is seeking a real appt. then he is reassured that upon arrival, he will not be disappointed and angry.  IMHO.

....we didn't pay for sites/photo shoots that aren't visited.   I also can't stand when a young kid asks for photos through text messages and then proceeds to send me a full nude of them...like I'm going to jump on the opportunity to do a young kid...NOT.  I recently was awakened from a voice saying "it's my 18th birthday, will you see me?"  Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...LMAO!

I need to retire and become a provider/companion comedian...the jokes/stories that I could tell.

MsManae

Its the hobby phone. Tiny disposable prepaid phone that fits in your pocket- without looking like you have 2 phones in your pocket. Downside is that the 10-key keyboard makes it hell to communicate if you're using it as anything other than a phone.

These guys are a waste of time BECAUSE................they are time-wasters!
Time-wasters looking for extra hopefully new never seen online jerk off material.  
I either ignore texts & emails that are one-liners or worse one words with polite & proper schooling of just how they are supposed to address a provider especially one they've never met before.  
Text-speak DEFINITELY has zero place in emails. Even during texting we aren't everyday friends so please don't send a lady hey/hi/how are you/yo'/whatsup etc type of texts UNLESS you are sure she already has you save in your phone and even then it'd better be leading to a booking and soon otherwise the tone of the convo (and the convo) itself could go downhill and end very quickly.

I think that every profession deals with its share of time wasters.  I sure deal with them in my industry.  Every once in a while, somebody calls and wants to do the 1000 question routine, which usually ends with no sale anyway.  I generally cut people off like that early in the conversation, and explain to them that I am quite busy, and they are welcome to call me back when they are ready to make a purchase.  I don't ever get rude about it, I just say it matter of fact.  After all, my time is money, and it literally costs me when I have to waste time with people like that during my working hours.

So with that being said, by the way, can you send me your pic?  (Just kidding!)

See what you think?

Compare your pixs to some on BP in the W4M section. Ask yourself are your pictures better than everyone elses in W4M?  Remember, this is W4M, typically none of which are “escorts” with their own web sites.
http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22493542&image=22541312

http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22592092&image=22592086

Look carefully at the pictures this woman runs:
http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/friday-night-fun-46/21907037

If you can find any of her adds from 6-8 months ago you will be amazed at the quality of the photos she used.

http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22412556&image=22412553

http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=21870525&image=22158638

Pay particular attention to any picture that does not have the click to enlarge capability.  Why cannot one click on it to see greater detail?  Click on some with click on for greater detail and, WALA!!, no greater detail??  How come?

http://phoenix.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/independent-yes-hotel-and-resort-friendly-also-25/17869111

http://newmexico.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/n-_-xo-27/4658101

http://newmexico.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/s-u-p-e-r-s-e-x-y-24/4918194

http://newmexico.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/a-must-see-sm0kin-h0t-pette-kinky-spnner-w-amazing-skillz-call-me-18/4914434

If one were suspicious, one could assume lack of greater detail obscures something not complementary. Ever look at a picture and wonder why it has a layer of color over it? A layer of yellowish orange vs a clear picture, like that picture without the layer of color.  What was wrong with the picture that a layer of yellow was added to it?

Run through the BP escort section.  Are your pictures better than all of the pictures there? At least, are all of your pictures equal to every picture there?
http://newmexico.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ot-ot-m-i-l-f-classy-fun-sexy-and-perfect-body-beauty-ot-31/4094402

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/too-hot-to-handle-melanie-at-the-studio-now-21/20443530

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/6080half_-adorable-cali-_exotic-beauty-_sweet-n-pink-6080halfhour-22/22559753

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=20231448&image=20731765

http://tucson.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/tucsons-favorite-just-took-new-pics-a-unique-beauty-29/22616269

Just for fun, download a picture you believe is less than any of your pictures, one that does have greater detail when you click on it.  Now, down load one of yours and compare them side by side on at least a 20 inch computer monitor.  Which looks better?  Print them out with the intention that you will later add relevant information in the margins so that when you compare them to decide which one had a higher place on your list of ones you want to contact, all of the relevant information is there.
http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22523391&image=22523387

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22523391&image=22523387

Here is an add from a grandmother:
http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=22556207&image=22556257

http://escortphonesearch.com/480-208-0302/

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=21316830&image=21997632

Still wonder why you might get asked for a picture?  Look at this one from body Rubs:
http://newmexico.backpage.com/BodyRubs/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=2738177&image=4051180

Are any of yours equal to or better than that one?
http://newmexico.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=4876952&image=4877721

Here is a classic example, which pictures do you think are better? The ones in adds or on her site?
http://escortads.xxx/602-824-2855/
http://sinthiasplace.com/photos.phtml

Another website to add comparison:
http://www.naughtyreviews.com/escorts/blue-faery-phoenix-white-female
http://bluefaeryfun.com/

If you believe as I do that the ones in adds are without a doubt better, what function does the site serve, other than to detract from the adds?

Wow Beckett !  You sure put some time into that research didn't you ?

  Bottom line, men are Very Visual Animals.  They want to see it.  Before, during and even after.  A huge porn industry exists because of this physiologic fact.  

  Use reasonable quality images to attract reasonable clients.  If you fake your ad photos, expect to lose the client, it's just fair.

......men being visual animals has nada to do with if you have several like 6-8 VERY GOOD quality pics on an ad and 20+ on a website and they still feel the need to askk for more pics. Bottom line is It's a waste of time and their just looking for more jerkoff material.