When I think of how old I am, I wonder where the time went. When I say how old I am, I can hardly believe the words came out of my mouth.

My body is no longer that of a 30-year-old and I am no longer the man of steel where a guy likes to be a man of steel. But in my head, I am still 25, horny, passionate, lustful, and crave the same in a woman.

My question: is the geezer factor any problem for providers? Can you look past the body "going to seed" (lol) and appreciate/enjoy a sensitive, giving, passionate lover, despite his not being an Adonis? Does dimming the lights help?

Have I just been lucky to be with providers to whom my age just doesn't seem to matter? Or is it just a matter of business is business?

I'd appreciate the feedback and any advice.

While I know you are interested in hearing from the girls, I'll offer my 2 cents anyway. I think these girls are all professionals and  can make any man feel comfortable regardless of his actual age.

when i was in my 20's i only wanted hot guys but now that i'm 34 and i've learned i'll never have an orgasm from looking at a guy, I prefer a well developed character over a well developed physique. i get along best with men who are around 50 on both a physical and mental level.

 i think nice is attractive whereas, physical attributes are of zero importance to me.  well, most of time.  

I find an older man is not just about himself but about pleasing his partner too.  He can make you feel like a queen and treat like a real woman (and not just a "piece of meat".)

So remember age is just a number and if you just enjoy yourself and not worry you will probably amaze yourself and your partner with what you can and what to still do and enjoy.

And besides I know I would love to cum when I go.  Then I am sure the coroner will not be able to get that smile off my face.

There is a reason we have the knowledge now and not back then we all we cared about was only the act.  

Luv mature men!!!
Misty

Sweetheart, you sound like such a darling, so the Sheika would like to reassure you and set your mind at ease.

Here is a look at reality from the other side of the fence.

In this business, if a client is nice and polite and respectful and can pay, and pay, and pay; the ladies will be accommodating.  More often than not, the ladies find an older client more conducive to the business arrangement agreed upon by provider and client.

Unless the client is physically grotesque in the extreme or physically inept or a smelly pervert or an irritable, disrespectful slob, a lady selling sex and an emotional fantasy will probably prefer him to a younger client.

A male in his 50’s is usually far less physically demanding.

A male in his 50’s is more likely to be a man of means.

It is easy to bolster an older man’s fragile ego.

An older client is very susceptible to misinterpreting all the posturing and emotional pretense. He may believe the acting is real.

A client in their 50’s is easy—or should the Sheika say “easier”—money. An older client is more likely to tip or bring gifts, so, a nice, boring, older gentleman is often encouraged to return and often is given VIP privileges.

Sweetheart, in this market place you have the upper hand. We just love to do business with clients like you.

LOVE, PEACE AND PROSPERITY,

Sheika Fatima  


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I actually wondered about the geezer factor many times, mostly when I see a provider for the first time. I wonder whats goes through their head when they lay their eyes on an old gezzer like me for the first time.  The bright side is after the meeting i leave feeling younger

There is a reason we have the knowledge now and not back then,and it is that if we had that knowledge back then we would really have"known it all" and then all of our parents would have been wrong about us,and that just wouldn't be right....lol

i dont find this to be true. most of the time, due to their experience, i find that pleasing older men is more challenging then younger men. they are also more likely to be on some sort of heart or blood pressure medication which makes finishing sometimes difficult.
plus older men are wise to the ways of women and not so easily fooled as younger men.

i like older men because i enjoy a good challenge.  i like to show off and get creative and i get satisfaction knowing i've just done something for a guy that not many other women can do.

easy is good for business and translates into a nice paycheck but some people choose their line of work for more reasons than just a paycheck.

again, maybe its just my age, but i've learned that easy is rarely very satisfying, in any aspect of my life.

i didnt know you were a provider.
someone stole your nickname http://browse.theadulthub.com/profile.aspx?user=abaz&webmaster=TheAdultHub

all this time, i thought you were a guy

i am most likely nervously wondering the same thing about you

Ana, the Sheika is sure that you are very sincere with this post and--though we have never meant—from your posts, I believe you to be a conscientious and honest business person.

Unfortunately, having good and honest intentions does not circumvent the business reality of a session nor does it contradict anything that I’ve said. This thread comments on only one small business reality of the sex trade. These realities are unsettling to some, but the Sheika believes that “telling it like it is” will benefit us all in the end.

Your post seems to indicate that you specialize in older clients. This can be very profitable.

More money for less work is a way to increase one’s profits. The quality of your service is not in question here. I’m sure you find mature clients emotionally and physically challenging and I’m sure you work very hard to please them; but, whether your post is true or contrived for business reasons, it will—in effect--increase your volume of older, stable and--with all due respect—less demanding or easier clients.

If I upset you, please accept my apology.

LOVE AND PEACE AND PROSPERITY,

Sheika Fatima


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It sounds like you and Ana should be quite compatable [Hmmm, I always assumed you were much younger]... Anyway,,,

Honey, if you get the chance, drop the Sheika an e-mail, pleeeeeeease!!! I'd like to chat.

PEACE AND LOVE and "~OLD PEOPLE RULE!!!~"

Sheika Fatima

[email protected]

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or somebody else? Guess my thread took on a life of its own! lol

But I'd love to chat with any provider who might be interested in my visit to Phoenix area in May.

Happy times!

You should definately email him.... I mean her. She...I mean, He, gave out his...I mean, her, email address.

if i wanted less demanding and easier clients, i'd be marketing for the 18-25 yr olds who fantasize about older women and sometimes tend to have a quick trigger.

after all, its that age group that inspired my name.

i rarely post anything on the internet for the purpose of marketing since the majority of my business comes from print ads.
from a business aspect i find print ads to be less demanding and since i dont really enjoy the marketing aspect of my job, thats where i take shortcuts to maximize my profits. this gives me more time to focus on sessions, which maximizes my pleasure (and hopefully someone elses too, of course).  

i'm sorry but i don't work hard
i work for play and play for work and thats just working smart.

dont worry about upsetting me, thats really very difficult to do and you should never have to apologize for speaking what you believe to be the truth.  



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Oh the intrigue. Doesn't a good mystery make life more interesting and more apealing!!!

The anticipation generates such excitement; does it not? It bring so much zest to life.

If you deligently search all of the Sheika's posts; I'm sure you will be less confused. You might even be delightfully amazed!

LOVE AND PEACE AND PROSPERITY,

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]

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I work for play and play for work! I love it

thanks ana

fooled by the dumb blonde act ?

you put the ez in geezer.

i guess you proved me wrong sheika. congratulations.