I was going to write in my blog tonight but then I thought. Let me catch up on the boards first. I have to say that I am really disheartened by all the negative bashing and flaming going on here. What is going on here in our little community? Lots of people saying mean things and hiding behind aliases to boot!  Didn’t their mother ever tell them if they don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything? I can understand if they have constructive criticism or are offering a solution to a problem. But none of this is what is going on. It is just blatant mean spirited posts. There are plenty of places on the internet where you can spew venom and the boards thrive on it. I always thought that this was a place where like minded individuals met to converse, advertise and share. This isn’t sharing of information; this is spreading rumors and intentionally being hurtful. I was shocked to read the thread (I think it was removed) about Jordan Kay’s new hair style. What a deliberate pop shot at a very beautiful woman who to my knowledge has never and would never intentionally hurt anyone. The comment about British Brooke, just another pissed off low class comment about a providers rates being too high for their taste, as if we should tell her to lower her rates because you think they are too high. I assume she is a great provider and I know she didn’t deserve the comment made about her. What rocks have these slimy parasites crawled out from under? Please go back to Craig’s List, a den where poisonous snakes, fakes, flakes and flamers congregate. Hate mongers are what you are. Don’t post your dribble here, just because you can’t afford someone’s fee, don’t like their personal style or like what they have to say. Contribute something constructive even if it is just to make someone smile. If you really have a problem with someone on the board then don’t hide behind an alias, have the balls to post your name along with your comment, at least we can respect your intestinal fortitude and not see you as a deceitful coward. If you don’t like someone’s posts (like my rants lol), then don’t read them. No one is forcing anyone to read everything posted on this board. We have a moderator and he does a great job, no need for you to circumvent the current system we have in place. There are more do gooders then evil villains on our board but, I would hate to see our little friendly community turn into a place where lies, Gossip and deceit can flourish. If we don’t respond to their negativity maybe they will get tired of being ignored and return to the dark corner of the web that they hide in.
~Malissa~

I ended  up getting some nice emails today,cuddeling with one handsome guy,and going to see a great movie.If you have not seen the 40 year Old Virgin yet treat yourself this weekend to one funny movie!!I have not laughed so hard since the Airplane movies.
Lets get back to being nice and stop hiding behing these damn aliases.I dont give a crap what anyone thinks about me because i feel secure with myself and am loved unconditinally by my dogs who love me no matter what my hair looks like.

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U go girl! .. For one I personally think you look great & it shows your pretty face more.  U know, I try not to sweat the small stuff.  The more people "hate" on me the more determined I get to look, feel  & do great.                 xoxo Sabrina

Thanks rebbw.  I hope those with all the negative energy somdeday  realize  how it poisons the spirit.

Malissa,

You are absolutely correct, and with that being said, I believe we should just ignor the ignorant persons.

Malissa you merely pointed out what many of us have felt. May karma pay a visit upon all for their actions.

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