This recent news of arrests and now a murder has me concerned. When I read of the three incidents my thoughts went out to the ladies in this hobby and how risky this hobby is for them. I encourage the use of references and reference sites. Ladies check the references diligently. Do NOT just advertise that you do, and in practice don’t. Gents do not complain when asked, ne grateful. You are at risk too!!!Let’s everybody play safe!!

Thanks 4 sharing this is very important for all of us!

Safety is our #1 priority.

It is also good to have the person PM you from the name and review site or sites he claims he is from to make sure he really is who he says.  I have seen where names get used but its not the person they claim.  Thank god nothing like this happened on any of those but never can be too careful.  

Also make sure your with a good service if you use one.  Met a gal a few months back that went to Indy about a year ago because she had never had a problem before going to a service then got busted once and robbed once while using the service to set up appointment so she left them and now has not had a problem again checking her own references.  She said one of there selling points was safety and only fully verified gents.