Phoenix
doing something like a Vegas night? With poker, blackjack and such. We could even have a portion of the proceeds go to a charity - thus you men would be attending a fund raiser - innocent enough right? We could have food, drinks, and of course fun...and benefit a charity. Something even such as a canned food drive would work too.
Now about something on the light athletic side...hmmmm bowling perhaps?? You know us women love playing with big balls. 
Seriously I would love to help organize as I have done that before. Just an offer and some ideas. Let me know.
The first was a paintball outing and party. It's usually played on a closed, private course, and I can think of several people who'd enjoy shooting each other.
The second was an old-fashioned softball game and picnic. Once again, we'd have to find a facility that could be rented exclusively (not a public park), but those exist. Beer, brats and friendly competition would be a blast.
Either way, I call playing on Sarah and Mya's team!
To whet your appetites, here's a picture of the Autralian Women's Softball Team...I'll bet the Phoenix ladies could take them (one way or another!)