I saw my ATF out in a Public Place,before we go any futher,not in that way!I mean she was standing next 2 me at the check-out line at the store. There she was in all her glory,her beautiful child standing next 2 her waiting patiently,much like I do, waiting patiently 4 her mother 2 answer the door 2 her incall location. Then there was the SO,sliding up behind her as she unloaded the cart,much like I like 2 do slide up from behind her when we are BCD. My fantasy become reality,I don't feel as though it changes the way we see each other. My guess is time will only tell....Has this happened 2 U?if so what was it like the next time U saw each other?just wondering.....
on your unique "perspective". I think the biggest reality check is simply the recognition that in the end its simply "another day at the office" for your ATF. She has a "real" life that means an awful lot more to her than you do...
If you simply enjoy the moment for just that...a wonderful moment with someone you "click" with your fine.
Guess the answer to your question depends on where your respective heads are at. If both have been approaching things as purely a business relationship then things probably won't and shouldn't change much at all. If however, one or both have allowed emotions or feelings to go beyond just business, then matters could become quite awkward and especially so if the feelings are one sided. The fact that you are raising the question Teach has me a little worried. As Hacker correctly stated in his post, it is important to remember that the ladies have real lives outside of the biz and that the time they spend with us is another day at the office for them. Most of these gals are so good at creating the fantasy that it is easy for things to become blurred at times. Be careful out there!
What makes an ATF an ATF is the tremendous focus she puts on you while your there. Obviously YMMV is a truism and one persons ATF is anothers also ran. That special chemistry can be a two edged sword. When you talk to the gals who are known for being "GFE" {most likely to be ATF IMO} they tend to limit themselfs session wise. It's the emotional "emmiting" thats draining...not the physical side of the encounter (at least most of the time)....
I hope you can keep your perspective. she might be your ATF, but to her your just another guy. She might have a bit more repect or she might enjoy your time a bit more. But when it comes down to crossing lines. I personally would say you wont be crossing over. Very few guys ever are let totally in maybe 2-10%. So I hope for your sanity that your mind can separate the two .
One that thats a bit interesting is how you write about it. As some one that doesnt know you its a bit creepy. Might keep that in perspective too.
I think each person is going to react differently. Depends on where each of us draws the lines. Personally, I stop seeing girls if I know too much or they have an SO (don't want to hear about the family, or SO or drama - I want it to be about me). That's me. And I am one who understands it is business. I am acquiring a few things. First and foremost, the fantasy. Second the acronyms.
For me, I want to keep some lines in my soul. To each his own I say. Live and let live.
Most of the ladies I have met, over time I find out, have a SO. I just do not care to know too much.
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