I often see a lot of anger with my sister providers regarding "men" in general. I have been through more horror than most will ever know regarding men, HOWEVER just because there were bad men in my life, and bad men DO exist, does not mean all men are bad... I wish it was not so hard for other SOME of the other ladies (some of the ladies love men as I do and are on the same page) to be able to chalk it up to experience and shelf it. By not doing so, they cheat themselves of a happier life.

Sure, venting is okay especially over BAD ONES, but putting all men in one hat is not good.

I refuse to allow those bad guys to steal my joy, or make my appreciation of the most satisfying thing on earth next to chocolate, lol, okay chocolate comes in second... but you get my drift. I understand "once bitten, twice shy" but the men I have met here have never, ever been anything less than awesome, and GENTLEMEN. I love to go into a meeting with a fresh, clean slate and allow the painting to become the beautiful work of art it becomes. Give it a try ladies, I would say a large percentage of the time, you will be PLEASANTLY surprised and you'll have a goofy grin on your face for days.

2 years ago I would have never decided to do this, I never thought I measured up, I am "thick", small breasted and older. I thought all of that was a total turn off. Thanks to another provider talking me through this and some awesome hobbyists, I made the right choice. My only regret of course, is waiting so long to get started.

Thank you guys for treating us as we deserve in most cases. I love you all, next to chocolate... lol

C


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Thanks, girl.  With many of the things that get posted here, it's easy to get the impression that many of the ladies are pretty much "hard boiled eggs."  I can still recall a post on TER in another city that we were referred to where a provider laid out all of her rules, stating how all providers view "johns."  It was pretty tough.  So, kudo's to you, and the many others who, I know, are like you.

It's only fair. We get reviews and "shills" sometimes even... Why not give credit where credit IS DUE?
Anyway we need to set a better example so SOME of the ruder gents might follow??? (Okay, we can HOPE)
Kisses,
C