she switched from BBBJ to CBJ for protection of own health????
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Not if she is really good at CBJ or there are other things that make up for this change. It has happened to me and it is a bummer after you have gotten use to a really great BBBJ, but my provider had a scare with another client so her piece of mind is more important than a little extra thrill for me. Who knows she may be back to bbbj with me in awhile. Hope so.
No, I love BBBJ, but it would depend on the provider. My ATF is only CBJ. What would matter more would be no more DATY.
I would because there are so many providers that do bbbj's and I love bbbj's.
Okay, this is just my 2 cents so.. and I know both of you so watch it! lol
I perform cbj and am very good at it. I do it that way because, you never know who has something and who does not. I mean.... I have doen tons of research and asked my doctors and was told this.... there is a slight chance of catching aids through oral but only a slight. Well, that slight is enough to keep me away from even trying it. Also, you can get an infection in your throat from it if the infected person has a disease. I cant remember but I think it is Shyphillis or how ever it is spelled. That is also enough 2 keep me away. Plus, I mean, what if the person has like herpes or something? There may be a time where you just dont know and I dont want to find out the hard way. I may seem like a big freak about it but I dont care. Sure, I am sure it feels good without a condom and all that but so does sex. But..... dying or living with some wart or something cannot be all that special.
I really feel that if a girl is having you wear a condom that you should be happy that she loves herself enough to practice safe sex. I personally would rather be with someone who is concerned about safety.
Sky
I don't know about you, but reading about Sky Silverman giving BJ's is almost exciting enough, much less feeling her on a near shear latex coating. I used to be a little obsessed with naked bJ's myself until I read some of the threads of what Sky's talking about. I looked at some providers who are reviewed as bbbj providers, saw the pages of reviews (about 10 per page), and did the math. And those are just the reviews submitted.
I would have no problem if one of my ATFs switched to cbj's. Besides, BJ's are just appetizers anyway. As sweet as they are, I enjoy the main course better. Just my thoughts about it.
I really need to call Sky, now 
No. I think that someone who is concerned with their own health like that is someone to be admired.
Most men ooze a little before the big one so she is getting a little bit of your ejaculate even if you don't CIM. That puts her at risk however small to catch something from everytime she performs unprotected oral sex. Even if you don't want her too, she is also protecting you from the last guy she was with.
I must admit I prefer intercourse anyway. I suppose it's like driving your car with your seat belt on. you'll get used to it.
Flyball, You are something else sweetheart and yes we should get together!
Sky
Girls, what about the question of DATY. I don't think it would be the same with a condom on my tongue. Other than CIM I think we are at the same risk doing DATY on you girls. I really don't want to think about stopping that. Sky what do you think?
no.
Not to get technical but need to look at mechanism of transmission for a particular disease before you can equate BJ to DATY
Slowstart,
I must be honest and say that I do allow Daty. And there has also been times where I do not. If the person seems to have dental matters going on. If he/she also had any problems with the mouth then I would say that I do not allow it. I mean, I am just looking out for myself cause no one else will. I know that I am clean as I am very frequently tested and was just tested 2 weeks ago. That is even better reward for protecting myself.
But you are right that we are all at risk. And that should be even more reason to cover up and enjoy. Woman can and I also have... used dental dams to cover woman to enjoy daty.
Alright! Now you've done it... I HAVE to see you now...
See what you've done to me???
MM
I must admit to being naive. What is the point of DATY with a dam? If the lady is insecure with the client and presumably the client doesn't get much benefit ( unless this is some variation of DEEP THROAT), why not just do something else that they are both comfortable with. I suppose I consider oral sex as foreplay and if the lady doesn't really want to do it, it's like skipping broccoli and moving on to dessert (LOL, GRIN)
Of course most would prefer BBBJ. For me this is only a part of the picture. Looks, attitude, and believe it or not, smarts are more important. Bright and enthusiastic trumps dim and disintersted no matter the "cover story ". So no I would no switch.
No I wouldn't because that is not the only reason why I see a specific providers.And I know that may be a big reaon why some men see a provider but for me there has to be more than that.
Hello Molly here
My thought is, if there is no cooties, from the naked eye, and I don't feel any bumps and sores etc...
We are all at risk, but if i see some form of cooties, a jacket is worn in my book.
Take care , Smooches Molly