This girl Hayden has changed her name to Shea along her phone number but is the same person (identical pictures) I reviewed a few months ago.  Hobbyists beware, she'll take your money and deliver nothing.  Someone else posted a bad experience about her on the board as well.  Worst experience in my hobbying career.  Beware!

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There are organizations springing up across the country to help women who do not want to be in this business. If you suspect someone is being forced, you can call the Polaris Project at 1-888-373-7888 or alert local police anonymously with your IPhone or Android. The app is called the Redlight Traffic App


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Although I can appreciate your response about girls caught up in this situation, and I agree it's a very sad situation, it's important for fellow hobbyists to be aware of people like this.  First, there is no way to tell by her ad if she's independent or otherwise. And yes, she has a pimp. I had the unfortunate experience of meeting him as I was leaving after only 10 minutes of being with her.  Luckily, nothing happened other than awkwardness and some real concern on my part as I was walking out.  She had no reviews, but I liked what I saw, and TOFTT, my bad  After the experience, I found a post on this board from someone who had a similar experience with this provider, so I'm not alone.  I was, and still am, obviously very upset with the whole experience.  She doesn't advertise on BP with some $50 special.  Her ad is on a premium sight and asking for premium $$$.  It's a scam and others should be aware, so instead of losing $300 on this person, the money would be better served handing it over to their favorite charity.

Great post Gina, really good information.  Thanks!

To me I am here to have fun. I'm sorry but I am not here to save the world. If a lady has a pimp or drug issue, I want to know about it so I can avoid her. It is the exact reason why I am on TER. If the person up sells, steals money, NSNC on consistent bases - I really could careless if pimp or drugs or whatever is involved. We need to avoid these people. Keep the reviews coming!

This is enemy number of consenting adult sexwork.  They are the largest group in the U.S. helping save the victims of consenting sexwork by arresting them.  All sexwork is trafficking and abuse.  They are one of largest of the victim industries in the U.S. to convince all consenting adults are "victims", got into prostitution at age 14 and basically there is no such thing as consent in sexwork since women are too dumb to know they are victims.  

Sadly due to the legal situation I am not aware of alternatives that don't feed into the victim industry for women who due to the legal status don't know what to do with abusive pimps since the last agency they would trust is LE.  But Polaris is part of the problem and why there are now about 100 felony prostitution related cases piling up in Superior Court all in private consenting adults.  

Huge amounts of funding and grants to LE to fund the rescue victim industry such as Catholic Charities in Phoenix (Project Rose etc)..

At least one well known worker had the guts enough to say in the "restoration" program she was not a victim but in charge of her own body.  And she was kicked out of program for not going along with "I am a victim" fraud these groups use to raise and fund $millions into the save them industry.

..u mean thousands to help ANYONE leave the biz and still have the financial means to live well.  
Imma happy girl today...You made my freakin day!!
Post this on every board we can.....we can make a difference

Thanks for the great post!

Of course she's blameless. Of course.

She may not have as much blame as your sarcasm indicates... People have different life experiences, resources, and tools to cope... She probably doesn't have zero blame - but maybe not as much as you think. It takes many events to shape a history, and everyone's is unique.... Every person should try walking in another's shoes before they pass judgement.  

Anyway... Gina's post is very valuable, this is a great thread to shed some light on an aspect not often discussed constructively on these boards.

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