I really did not know how to title this page.  I had a regular we will call her Alexa, because i don't like to tell incidents and let people wonder who the person is. I met her about a year ago,  the first time e met it was wonderful and i informed her I was looking for a regular.  We talked like we were old friends,  she had just come here from Canada. She was complaining there was nothing do at night in Phoenix. ..talked to her about the business her and tried giving suggestions on this to do.  Met several times again,  every time was great.  Even met her at her house,  told me what's going on in her life and complained about her land lord.  She moved,  met her after that.  

Sorry to hear of this......I think it's just the "hobby"......nothing like it was years ago. IMHO there used to be more "mature" ladies (of all ages) who were responsible. Even the agencies have gotten stupid.....where's Rose when we need her? Rates vs. quality don't add up in my mind. Probably just an image of society as a whole, but with the exception of a few "old" friends, I'm pretty must done. Guys BS in reviews, unreliable providers, tons of druggies out there, out of state scammers all over the place.......Yeah...I know.....there's some quality out there if 400 + seems reasonable to you......I'm old, and it doesn't. Again, sorry to hear.....was thinking of seeing her too.....oh well.

If your curiosity was getting the best of you and you wanted to know why I had moved you to my DNS list in the first place, you could have asked me instead of trying to bash me in an open forum. I apologize if your feelings are hurt, but I stopped seeing you for a specific reason. You knew I would no longer see you months ago, when I was using the name Alexa. When I changed my name and website, because I was being harassed by some loser, you popped up again without letting me know who you were. You didn't say you were xxxx, you booked an appointment with me like you were a new client. While you were discussing directions with me, something in my spidey senses just didn't feel right, and then I questioned you. It wasn't until then that you told me who you were. I politely told you how that made me feel uncomfortable (and given the fact that you knew I would not be seeing you anymore, I have reason for that to make me uncomfortable), and you said you understood.  

I can assure you that when a gentleman is polite, respects my time, and has good hygiene, there are never any issues between him and I.

I will not go round and round like this is high school,  sorry if you feel I publicly bashed you.  For record, a couple of times when i tried to see and our schedules did not mesh and you did not know who I was through text. ..i even made a comment that you did not have my number locked in and you told me that you would lock it in. Next I was never on your DNS list,  if i got on it. .I never informed,  especially since i had seen you over several times and a couple months before this encounter. And again that last night,  since you greeted me like you knew who I.....i did not think i had to tell you who I was.

BIGGEEP it's clear she does not want to see you anymore for whatever reason.
Just move on and enjoy the other highly rated providers in this area.
You have a lot of great choices in this town too!
 

This is not the place to discuss whatever is going on here. Have some class and just let it go...

I called her once there was a guy who answered the phone.

If this isn't the place for hobbyists to discuss such things, what is?  I thought that's why TER exists?  Unfortunately it's become a place where providers harass hobbyists and complain about getting bad reviews.  Then overly protective hobbyists try to silence others who don't say things the "right way".  I didn't see his post as trying to disparage Nikki, I saw it mostly as a guy who didn't understand and was seeking understanding the best way he could.  Maybe it wasn't the best, but what other options are there?  That being said if the provider isn't calling you back and seems to be ignoring you, presume she is and doesn't want to see you.  Or you could just ask her straight up if she doesn't think it's a good fit.  I think most providers want it to be a positive experience all the way around.  

This comment is not meant in any way to impugn the provider concerned in the original post.  

i said eofm, mf!

Thank you,  if i told this story and did not give a name. I would have been blasted.  When did this not become the right place?

Great point and a good question to ask?  Why are alias' provided?  Then when someone uses one (as I am) they are considered to be hiding.  What hypocrisy.  All the providers hide behind fake names already and many of them want to verify us with our real names.  

There was no reason for you to name the provider here on a national board.
You should have work your problems out between the two of you by email, phone
or as others said just move on.

So basically you are saying a provider on two separate occasions can set something up with you,  you give them the benefit of doubt the first time because of your relationship with them. ....you basically waste over 6 hours of your time and you should apologize.  You gonna miss me with that. Even the AA thing i glossed over. ...if you don't see AA,  why not put that in your ad (saves your time and theirs,  hopefully) or why not ask that on the intial contact. ..things to thing about.  Btw, since i have seen several times. ..don't think that was the issue...unless it became one. ....communication is the key.

It seems like every time there is the least bit of criticism of a provider someone jumps down the throat of the OP.  
I think that's what these boards are for and we should feel free to talk about providers and our experience,  but it's not something that we can put into a review.  Perhaps other guys also have had bad experiences as well?  

So true. I keep track of people who behave like this on the boards and steer clear of men who cause drama. Nobody wants to deal with a man who vented by publicly discussing you on the boards first without communicating with the provider behind closed doors.  

Thanks CallofBooty for the reply. I'm sure a lot more providers feel like you do and that's why they have stopped posting here. And the guys wonder where they went.

My last response. This board use to be a place where we could discuss stuff. I saw this woman close to 10 times,  so obviously we had a business connection.  If you go to your favorite restaurant and have one bad experience. ..you may toss it out as a bad night. ..another one,  you might ask what's going on. ..I bet everyone on here has had a great place to go and then suddenly something was off. I had nothing and i will repeat great EXPERIENCES with her up until the last months. ..This is not the first provider,that either did not show up or answer their phone when i arrived at the location...in my 18 years I probably had 95% good experiences......that's why i look for a regulars.

Happens every day. Your making a fool of your self by begging her to come back.
Plus dragging her thought the mud isn't making you friends.
Now I know most the ladies you mention why don't you call one of them.
I'm sure there've as much fun today as the were yesterday.

Kudos to Nikki for responding in a professional manner with good grammar and punctuation when she didn't need to chime in at all. I'm being serious. Many people cannot write well, my view has changed on Canadian schools.