Ever heard of this? Ever been guilty? It's sad Hobbyists ever have to become that clever, all in the name of simply not getting stood up themselves, though someone is going to suffer by way of cancellation, or worse, NCNS. I get irate (though nothing I can do) when I feel this happens to me. Afterall, I'm getting punished for the disrespectful Provider who's obviously jerked him with this one. This is just all around bad.
Though I do understand, it's not something I'd bother doing. I've read many posts about guys saying "Wait for her, it's normal to be put off X amount of time past your scheduled time". I don't agree. If it ain't gonna happen tonight, I'll schedule with someone else for a future date. I'm too old to have to blow 'right now'.
My time is mine, and it's valuable. If I wanted to wait on someone to get ready past our appointed date, I'd still be married or be on a civy date. On the same token, I respect the time of the lady who has agreed to see me, and I've never been late. If the date isn't going to happen at the scheduled time, I would give advanced notice and expect the same. If this minor amount of respect can't be afforded me, that provider will be scratched off my list, as I would expect them to do the same to me if I flaked on them.
I've seen many a post about how if you can't put up with this minor inconvenience of arriving at an area near an incall and not being responded to in a timely manner would cost me some great experience, I disagree. Part of the experience is having someone that treats you special. If they put you off with no regard for your time and trouble, no amount of tongue tricks makes up for that. I expect provider feel the same, though, for the sake of maintaining their rep and business they have to suck it up a little more.
Now, if your just looking for a replacement for Rosy Palm and her sisters, I guess any loving is good loving.
and yes it happens I use to have a couple of providers that I talked to and we were always getting the same calls and booking with the same guy .....we just called them out on it....the sad thruth is many of these men have been burned and just want to ake sure they have a sure thing in case the provider flakes.
Never done it myself, but yes, it's a tactic used by some hobbyist. And you are correct, you're being punished for the provider who decided to NCNS and see another hobbyist, for whatever the reason. Clients get tired of this type of behavior and will make alternative plans just in case. And there is no answer, its bad behavior on both sides.
I have to assume you will not be booking any future appointments with him anymore than I would book a NCNS a second time.. The only excuse I would accept was that she was hospitalized with both hands in a cast.. a call, text, or e-mail is only common courtesy...
Nothing worse that time on my hands, money in my pocket and no place to go
w/out a call or text from her, is more than generous on giving benefit of the doubt. i know when my appts are, there's always a confirmation call made prior (which is also when I give them my address), & I communicate any issues with running late & asking if this is ok with them. So I'm thinking if I haven't heard from them by a 1/2 hr, it's open-season on making other arrangements. And I've only given a 2nd chance once, & that was b/c the guy kept emailing me with the sweetest apologies, offering to pay for the session anyway, & b/c his honesty was admirable... he simply spaced our appt. (This is the point where I began implementing the pre-appt confirmation call. It filters out all but the true assholes.)
Booking two providers at the same time is not acceptable. Backup plan or not, it's simply not acceptable. If I were to book two clients at the same time, it wouldn't be acceptable to the guys now would it. Unless you are willing to PAY them both if they BOTH show up, its not acceptable to the ladies. And... don't expect a double from ladies who don't work together or know each other or have not agreed to a double in advance. There is no excuse for this on either side of the coin and you cannot make a legitimate argument to do this no matter how often you have been burned. You have the means and ability to report a NCNS ( both clients and providers ). Those are your resources.
When a client books two appointments at the same time, SOMEBODY is going to loose.
However, with that being said, keep in mind the following. We ladies need to plan our days a bit better. I never have the issue of having a client wait while I finish up with another client or finish getting ready from a previous client as I only book one a day. If the provider cannot ready on time, they have squandered the clients time and his time is TWICE as valuable as the ladies' time. He is paying her for her time plus is not at work, so it actually costs the client TWICE. If indeed he has travel time before and after the appointment, then his time may be THREE times as expensive as hers. So for the few ladies who can't seem to be ready within 10 minutes of the appointed time, I am pointing a finger at you too.
This act is NOT acceptable for EITHER party & I think it's pretty audacious of anyone to try, b/c as you said, SOMEONE will always lose & no one can value or judge the worth of my time of being any less important than another's. And it is NO different than if I were to double-book 2 clients, & if that were the norm then nobody has earned that right moreso than myself this last 10 days, with 5 cancels & 1 NCNS. I too limit my appts to once/day for various reasons & try to share that concept with my prospective clients so they are hopefully less likely to waste my time. So cancelling with us has a greater monetary (& mental) impact than cancelling with someone who will schedule back to back, though this is our choice. However, none of these premises are even relevant to argue b/c EVERYONE knows better than to do this & only someone evil will sit back & revel in his master-minding of this plan. But I just sat here & daydreamed/fantasized pulling this crap with 2 Hobbyists whom I feel has done this to me... imagine the scenario: let them reschedule but book both appts simultaneously. When (I mean, if...) they both show up, explain the logic of covering all bases & insist they both stay, participate simultaneously b/c we only have an hour (& not even kinky), & each of them donate the required rate, stating, "Well, you win some you lose some in this crazy industry. What can you do?". Hee hee hee! Really?
Instead, fill your hearts with compassion. For how can you know the difficulties that face those who must live with a greater weight between their legs than your own? Do not return anger if they do wrong to you. But rather prepare yourselves to accept them freely with open legs. I say to you this day, you will be have your blessed reward of their warmest love returned deep inside of you.
Well, Kelsi, when I book you, you can be assured that I will not "double book". I wouldn't want to risk missing a date with someone that looks as amazing as you do! Be sure to watch for my contact!
Posted By: Kelsi
Ever heard of this? Ever been guilty? It's sad Hobbyists ever have to become that clever, all in the name of simply not getting stood up themselves, though someone is going to suffer by way of cancellation, or worse, NCNS. I get irate (though nothing I can do) when I feel this happens to me. Afterall, I'm getting punished for the disrespectful Provider who's obviously jerked him with this one. This is just all around bad.
This why doing your homework and choosing wisely is so important. I can sympathize with exquisite ladies like kelsi who are low volume and prepare themselves for a date. Hard to feel sorry though for someone who makes you wait or puts you off because they are "finishing" with the guy in front of you. ECKK!
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