It's probably fair to say that professionally, it doesn't matter, but personally, what is most important for you to find in a man who books time with you?

Good physique? Intelligence? Sense of humor? Somebody who knows the meaning of foreplay? Good kisser? A pleasure giver as well as a pleasure receiver? Height weight proportionate? A sexual athlete? A slow hand?

We're assuming that good hygiene is a given. It would be interesting to hear what you hope for in the experience besides good manners and a generous spirit.

Good question... the most important quality for me, is someone who can watch a ladies reactions and act accordingly. If she tries to move your hand slower down there, go with it- it's probably her hinting that the fast movements hurt and she likes it slow.... if she grimaces in pain everytime you suck her nips, you're probably sucking too hard, suck softer and see what she does then....
You get my drift

weight isn't an issue, I am no supermodel and I think that sexually (As you mentioned if everyone's hygeine is in order) everyone can have fun.

What's important to me is someone that can communicate not only in conversation but in the pleasures....I hate when there is no conversation.  I hate doing all the talking, but I probably talk to much anyway! lol

But I really like it when I hear the pleasure sounds. Being a kisser and the foreplay are always more important than looks, physique....some of my best lovers are not the Brad Pitts or Johnny Dep (oooooh)!!!!

Since you're asking the question, you're heading in the right direction. I personally appreciate when someone will ask instead of assume. ;0)

A well rounded time that isn't one sided is what I prefer. I enjoy it most when it's a give and take. If the person is a great kisser than all the rest will follow. *wink wink

Hygiene is paramount!  Often when you see a lady with consistantly high scores, and an occassional bad performance score it is because of the clients bad grooming habits, or lack of grooming habits.  

As for the rest, it is always nice when I arrive for outcall if mood lighting, maybe some music is ready and at least offered a glass of water.  Quite often a guy will just be nervous and not think of any of this.  But sometimes we meet someone who doesn't even care to offer a glass of water and is more concerned with getting every minute in and that is when I feel I am being treated as a machine vs a human being.  But for the most part the vast majority of guys have really figured things out and allow me to suggest things if he is rubbing me the wrong way or not.  One of the gifts of maturing is that even though eyes may be requiring readers for fine print etc., one can see past an imperfect hairline or a little extra weight, and find a person attractive and actually see that person as a handsome guy once you have had enough conversation to learn of his acheivments and hard work.  I am very grateful to the lessons many have learned in this arena on the art of making love.  I know it has improved my skills as well as those of the gentlemen.  Generally a good kisser is also a good lover.

A smile and a kind demeanor are important to me!  We all like a guy that smiles and has a good sense of humor and nice manners as well, in and out of bed.  A hot BFE always works great for me!

For me it's most important that the guy comes in with a positive attitude , if a guy has a great outlook and perspective as well as a good sense of humor we can overcome any deficiencies in his kissing, pleasure giving technique, etc.

and the ability to carry a stimulating conversation.  A mental connection is just as important to me as a physical connection.

PERSONALITY GUYS...love me or leave me

I asked the question because I wanted to hear the ladies' point of view, and those who have answered have done so sincerely, with no disingenous attempt to tell us men what they think we want to hear.

In the process of reading the answers, what I have learned reaffirms what I thought would be important to the ladies.

The side benefit is that the ladies who took the trouble to reply now form a list for me of very attractive, desirable women to spend some quality time with. Women whose sybaritic nature is in tune with my own hedonistic tendencies. I look forward to indulging in mutual sensual sharings. I just wish I was younger and richer! Thank you all for your feedback.

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but i just want to THANK YOU for the responses..they were all great..

I love a man who is comfortable with letting me be in complete control of his pleasure and I enjoy playfulness.

I've seen both of you and you are  both the both the perfect Date and wonderful Gentlemen, I'm glad I've met you both...

Thank you!

ummmm...can I use electrodes?
I figure that about the only chance I have at stimulating anything on or in a woman.