and here's the reason why the flame was not necessary. There is just a little bit of protocol to the boards. First DUIT is a member since Sept 2000 and has written over 90 reviews.  You appear to have joined 7/3/2010 or at least that was your first post on the Phoenix board and have never written any reviews. And the flame post of DUIT was I believe only your 5th post on this board..  DUIT until 2007 was a regular contributor to his local LA board. What does the # of reviews have to do with it? That's easy,  the 90 plus reviews DUIT has written shows he is a "giver"  asking for 411 with no reviews would have shown DUIT  a  "taker", however, that was not the case.  And # of reviews he's written also shows to a certain degree he knows of what he speaks . One of the ways you gain board cred is the # of reviews you've written and # of posts to the board. Gentlemen such as From 85003 (115), JEFFREY (108), Unique27(42), Prosopis(37) and Kingcody(26) all command a certain amount of respect due to the #s after their TER handle.   Finally DUIT was very specific in his 411, he mention the area of town, and the type of lady he would like to see. His post was the correct way to ask for help, not the typical newb who comes on the board and simply posts "who's the best"  Many mongers now post 411 requests for local ladies on the Reviewers Board, where info flows a little more freely than on this public regional board. And that is why I sent DUIT a pm. Feel free to pm me if you'd like to discuss further. Good luck.