Phoenix

Friend going through divorce
funlovn2633 12 Reviews 1397 reads
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I have a close friend whose divorce is nearly done.  His soon to be ex has been screwing him over for almost 2 years.  He is in some dire need of TLC and would never go to a provider on his own.  Would it be too strange to set him up with a provider?  Are there any providers that would even allow this to happen?  Just curious gang!

You sound like a good friend, however, while you say your friend would never go to a provider on his own, does he know that you hobby. If he knows, does he approve, and if he doesn't know, are you sure you want to introduce him to this lifestyle, since you don't have any idea how he will  react.  I prefer to keep my hobby activities to myself. Yes I post on the board, but none of my friends know about my hobby activities and that's the way I like.

Most well reviewed providers would probably NOT to see someone that they couldn't screen.  And your word "he's my friend and a good guy" probably wouldn't be sufficient screening. Just my .02


Thank you for your $.02.  I appreciate it!  We have actually talked about hobbying on a vegas trip but he does not know that I have hobbied in Phoenix.  Albeit on a very limited basis.  None of my friends know.  I think he feels it would be a "what happens in vegas stays in vegas" type of thing.  I have suggested to him that he should bite the bullett and give it a shot here.  Maybe he has and does not want me to know!  Lol!

You are right about the screening issue.  It could be a challenge and I would not want any of our lovely providers to feel uncomfortable.  Safety first!

Any good lawyer would tell your friend to stay squeaky clean until all the divorce papers have been finalized. Especially if it has been a nasty divorce.

Also, if he has kids it could screw up his visitation rights even after the divorce is done.

Personally, I think Vegas is completely overrated for providers. I sure as hell wouldn't surprise him with a provider. That's a recipe for disaster.

If I were you I would "brag" a little about what a great time you are having and show him some of the pics of the great gals in town (after the big D - of course).

If he has been in a long dry spell for those 2 years, he probably won't take much convincing.

Play safe!

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