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Help calm a newbie.....red_smile
azhorny 2460 reads
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I've got an appointment coming up with a very very well reviewed  provider while I'm in town.  These will be my first in the hobby.  

I called to confirm an appointment and am really getting nervious that she's LE.  During our conversation, she casually mentioned her "overnighter" yesterday and another appointment tomorrow.   During our banter, there was talk about her friends who know she's in the "business."  It's an incall, but not at her typical place due to the time of our appointment.  She said she'd give me the address the day before our appointment.  She sounded very bubbly and genuine on the phone as if we were good friends.  

What really got me was she didn't even realize that I was coming from out of town.  I thought it would've been obvious from my contact/screening info.  I also realized she never called my work phone.  There was no talk of anything explicit or donations, but I was a little nervous during the call.  I don't know how conduct is for those experienced in the hobby.  The Newbie board, mentioned to be very discreet in contacting a provider, but our phone conversation was anything but that.  


I don't want to cancel, but It got me kinda nervous.......

VictoriaOfAz2367 reads

I am not sure how this works but it ssem you should be able to contact at least one of her last reviewers by this PM method or they contact you by back channeling you. Maybe someone with more experience on these boards might help. AZ hacker really seems to go out of his way to answer these questions and help you guys out. Good luck

I agree that you should go with your gut if you have reason to be concerned.  You simply CANNOT be too safe in this hobby.
That said, my experience has shown that a well reviewed Provider is almost always trustworthy.  If she comes from one of the local agencies, it's ALMOST a sure thing.  It is always possible, of course, that she has recently been busted and turned, but her agency would almost certainly know that and get her out of circulation immediately.  
I would also look at the number of reviews she has.  One or two might not mean much, but if she has 10 or more, it's REALLY unlikely she's LE.  
That said, if you still don't feel safe, just don't do it.  There's no reason to take a chance, and you won't enjoy yourself if you're worried about being busted.
I wish you safe and happy hobbying

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