A guy made an appointment with me early in the month for Friday the 9th of September. As time got closer he told me he was short on cash and had to cancel our appointment. I understood and told him I hoped to see him some other time. He then posted asking ladies if they took credit cards and I replied that I could work it out. Because of this he rescheduled with me early on Friday the 9th. I told him I had some things I wanted at my favorite store online but they would need to be ordered right away since he wanted to see me that night. He agreed. The order total with shipping was $75 less than my normal two hour rate. He gets a deal and I get the clothes.  Win Win right? I got a confirmation number via e-mail from the store so the order HAD been submitted.
 Friday evening I called him at 9:45 to tell him I was ready and could be there at our scheduled time at 10pm. He said he was still at dinner with his co-workers and could I wait a while. This was not a circumstance beyond his control. He could have told them he was tired and left. He picked the time not me. He was not considerate of MY time at.  I had to wait in Phoenix for well over an hour with nothing to do before I could go see him because I didn't want to drive back to Mesa and then drive back in. He was finally available at 11:00pm and when I got there he said that he had just gotten back to his room 5 minutes before I did. He had not bothered to freshen up and he appeared to have been drinking heavily. I stayed and fulfilled my end of the arrangement. We played and had fun, then talked about Albuquerque and hot air baloons. He was a very nice guy even with the small issues.
  The next day I checked online with the confirmation number and it didn't show the order. I called first thing Monday morning and they told me that the order was cancelled. I called him and he said he would call them and take care of it. I have not heard from him since...... I sent an e-mail yesterday asking if he was planning on making it right. No response. I sent one this morning letting him know that I would be posting to let the ladies know about this. Ladies I would not trust taking credit cards from him. Normally when I make an arrangement like this I ask that my items be purchased at least three days in advance of our scheduled appointment AND be shipped express. That way I know they are in the mail on the way. I trusted him because he had seen a few other ladies that I know. I have given him time and I have not been nasty in any way in my e-mails to him. He even posted a note here about meeting me and called me awesome. I have all his info so PM me or e-mail me and I will send it go you so you know not to make any credit card deals with this one.

this guy sounds like a real parasite on societies ass!  my heart goes out to you Donna

thanks to your link, I hope he has a good explanation.

Perhaps he is traveling, since he was visiting here. Perhaps there is a good explanation.

If not, it seems a pretty dumb stunt, given the frequency of his posting on these discussion boards.

I've had some conversations with other ladies about him. He seems to have back-channeled many of the ladies here in town, hoping his "nice-guy" attitude will pay off in a reduced session.

I was OK with him constantly emailing me until I heard about the situation with Donna today.

Now he's just burned his bridges with every lady here in town.

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Donna,
  Sorry you got ripped off by the bum.  He makes
it hard for good hobbist to be trusted and harder
on the Ladies who are willing to work with the
hobbist. Again, sorry to hear it but glad to hear
your OK (safe). Hope you have a good week.

He seems to be a regular contributor to the boards, PHX and General.  If he made a practice of ripping off ladies, I imagine it would've come out before now.  Ripping you off this way is too hard and not very smart.  There are easier and more anonymous ways to do it.

I wouldn't read too much into not being able to reach him.  We hobbyists know how difficult it can be to reach someone sometimes, especailly when we really want to!  He may still make it right.

Having said that, I guess he's proven to be at least somewhat unreliable, and I can see why taking credit cards from him could be considered too risky, whether this gets resolved or not.

Being the optimist that I am, I wouldn't be surprised if you heard from him soon.  I hope you do, not because of the money, but for your own piece of mind.

If not, I'll hold him down for you, so you can kick him in the nards!

more often then us.... TOFTT!! maybe, I can purchase my own hot air ballon ride with U sometime,and some friends of yours?

....he'll probably develop an alias here, and scam someone else before long.  Isn't there some kind of IP-address tracking that can be used to rid the Board of people like this?
Donna, sorry you were victimized, as you are known for your fun-loving nature and above-board honesty.  Please don't hold this against guys in general!

be traced and alias's can be discovered.  PM me for more details as we have just done it recently to identify a alias.

... is that he may have made it harder not only for himself, but others who post frequently & have no reviews to their name.  Am I wrong?  This is just a speculation, let me know if you disagree. I'll be back online in a couple of days.

Has he even attempted to make this right?  I know that you gave him numerous chances to rectify this situation, but now - after this post.  Has he contacted you or has this post  been in vain?

Good luck girl - he will get his and will probably have to invent yet another alias in order to seek out ladies to see.

*kisses*
Jazz

Post his contact information on National Blacklist. It's a new site designed to help escort safety.

www.nationalblacklist.com