It seems that two words that are commonly used (mostly in hobbyist comments) to describe a type of hobbyist that providers actually detest are "fat" and "ugly".

I would like to know what any of the lovely providers on TER think about this.

More specifically, are there any providers out there that really don't mind (or even enjoy?)working with a hobbyist who is a clean, pleasant looking, gentleman with a nice personality who may also happen to be "fat". (say... 300 lb.)

Most providers don't mind if you're fat. As long as you don't have any expectations that a young attractive lady will(really) be turned on by you, you'll be fine.  And remember, not all positions work for every body type. An understanding and experienced woman will know  how to make you comfortable as well as please you.

this is a tough question but you asked for honesty. I would ask you the same question even though you are paying would you see a fat or ugly provider or even pleasant looking  lady with a nice personality that also happens to be fat?I think if you are a large size man you should tell the provider up front that gives her the option to make the call. I mean do you really want to spend your hard earned money on someone that was just going through the motions? You sound like a wonderful guy I hope you find someone that likes you for you all 300lbs.Victoria

The question can go both ways.  I for one do not like the Twiggy type.  On the other hand I do not want to visit the Circus Fat Lady.  Anything in between is fine with me.  I have been told by providers of their physical stature when pictures are not available and found the self descriptions to be honest.  The old saying, "closer to the bone, the sweeter the meat' is not always true.  A little extra meat can be very sweet, comforting and of so soft to cuddle. My humble opinion on the fat issue.  Ugly on the other hand requires a sack or Old Glory.

have seem a few gents that you describe and I have enjoyed very much our time together, in fact I still see them and would love to see you!



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If size and weight were mentioned upfront, would a provider be genuine in her resonse? Or might she say OK, even though it actually bothered her?

Thank you, Terri, for the kind response. I may take you up on your offer.

I will admit that on photos ofbody type only I am not attracted to very large women. However, the face, especially eyes and smile are overiding factors. And when it comes to being WITH the person, I have met large women I was attracted to and 'pretty' average size gals I had no interest in.

That is really why I asked in the first place was to get an idea if there are providrs who have a similar view to mine.

depends on the provider...she might just want your money or she might politely decline and tell you she's booked or something like that or she might say that she is very petite and it might not be a good fit and if she is really nice, might recommend you someone who she feels would show you a sincere great time....I do ask the other providers for such details as how you present yourself and also how you look , sometimes if the provider says well he is heavy but he makes up for it by his personality then I will reconsider if he is highly recommended....

BRING IT....with all that meat we don't need no potatoes....  I'd rather skip the taters any how.

give me a call any size, shape, form, or color for that matter, all I see is the person I am with for whom they are not what they look like.
Who am I to judge... and who is anyone to judge me?

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Derinda
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I can honestly tell you that I used to weigh 340lbs and never had a negative provider experience. They were always pleasant and enthusiastic...It's all about confidence, which is always sexy, in a man or a woman.

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