Phoenix
FAKE REVIEWS and threats to write a bad review with no apt
Hello
Hey I have a bothering....
What about men who are having a personal issue and whom post a fake negative review on our profile. I had this happen and after a long time I figured out who it was and wrote it.
Not enough to prove who it was so it stays even though no apt happened...?
I have also had a number of men whom when not getting the apt schedule they want or dont agree with me enough to have me book threaten a bad review>
Is there anything to be done to stop the nonsense and power tactic?
Why dont we ladies also get a review section to have say in response this horseshit and as well a section to review the men?
There could be good ones with paid well and smelled good was a gentlemen to shorted me and had moldy balls ect.
Seriously ?
Anyone else have thoughts on this ?
Thanks
Payto
i thought this site had a section where the providers review their clients that only providers can view on this site.? also don't some of the other sites such as 411 have this?
I think it is a great idea. Providers review hobbyist. If someone is a really good guy, he will benefit by this listing. Moreover, if a guy is bad news, he will not be able to continue to victimize our wonderful providers that we all appreciate so much. Very smart Payton!!
The problem with a provider review site is that providers are just as likely to put up fake reviews of men for various reasons. Some might say they are more likely to do it. I think it is best to stick to requiring established references if you have concerns.
I agree with Payton and TVlaw that its a great idea for the ladies to review the men. But, ITAdmin has a point as well. My retort to IT would be if the review of the men from the ladies is not an option; how about a reverse white list? The men get put on the white list by a Lady and if those men that are white listed get 3 strikes on the name from 3 different ladies then they should loose their white listing and not be eligible to be reinstated until 3 different ladies then support a new white list. Maybe this or any version of the idea may work for our ladies not to get unwarranted bad or negative reviews.
There is something silimar to this at play with p411 OKs I think. The OKs of course mean that you are vouched for by those girls as being legit but also P411 is pretty strict about conduct and if you were to have complaints of that nature reported to them you would probably have your access and account removed if they could be substantiated or if several girls reported it as you said.
TER Whitelists offer nothing like this but P411 isn't to bad as something similar to what you mention
Won't work, a lot of guys have their whitelists hidden in their personal options. Hide whitelist referrals, so what would be the point, and any women who has given a whitelist can have it removed at anytime, so again it won't work.
AHH really? Did not know that we could hide any whitelist. Since that is the case, then yes that idea wouldnt work.
Payton. Mean people suck.
I'm unclear though on getting the fake review removed... if you are pretty certain who it is, then why can't you talk to the owner/admin & tell them the name behind their handle... surely when this reviewer registered as a site member, he likely gave the same name he books appts with. If all they are concerned about is proving who wrote this bad review (before they consider removing it) & the name you have for this person matches the name of the registered member, then you've at least pin-pointed who you think wrote it. Then they could contact him to investigate. Now if he's guilty, he likely won't even respond, & this may be all the proof they require for resolution. Personally, I wouldn't let this rest until it's deleted. I have recently experienced the fake review myself, & though it was a great review, it was fake, so it had to go. Many Hobbyists rely substantially upon the reported testimonials of our reviews as a research tool. Results to these situations however, are time consuming, but a false, negative review could hurt business, so you may consider pursuing this to the end, IMO.
It's ludicrous what some will do to harm others. A number of guys threatening bad reviews based upon the inability to schedule with you, may simply suggest looking for a different place to advertise. There are a few sites I refuse to post on, b/c the quality of those who would contact me were below the level I was seeking and/or I was being contacted by non-serious inquirers. Changing my advertising venues & requesting contact via Email only (while not answering unknown numbers on my phone), eliminated virtually all undesirables, functioning as a great filter. Worth a try...
There are no known review sites for reviewing Hobbyists, though there has occasionally been talk of creating one, & have even considered this myself, but I too can't seem to figure out a system that would be effective. And though I hate to admit, I think it would deem excessive abuse from Providers with their own issues, & result in dishonesty or disaster. I support my fellow-Providers & all, but I have seen some ugliness by unfair ruling.
What we DO have in our defense is a Providers Only section within many of our review boards. We also have blacklist sites to report the abusive guys (this is abuse), & I personally feel obligated to do so when I come across someone who's a jerk, b/c the whole idea is to reduce their chances of repeat offense through a long list of Providers, which supports a strong, safe community. So at the very least sweetie, you could document these circumstances within the appropriate sites so other Providers can take part in boycotting these losers. PM me for a list if you're unfamiliar with these sites.
As a last resort, provided your screening tactics are effective & implemented, I would remind these imbeciles that they have just as much at stake as you do, if not more. Defamation of character in return would not go over too well in their own lives, guaranteed.
Best wishes on resolving this!
But I agree for a slightly different reason. Having gone through and read quite a few reviews, I am surprised at the number of "Master of Sex" there are out there. I was unaware that 90% of the male population had the ability to make women big O at least 4 times in 30 minutes. It would be interesting to hear the other side. Just a thought.
Lol, I agree Frequentflier,I guess we all may embellish a little however, I wonder if some guys are going overboard or the ladies are really convincing?
I have gotten quite a few bad reviews, from totally bogus reviewers! One wrote a BULLSHT review just to gain VIP on here, and others were upset cause I didnt do all that nasty stuff BBBJ & CIM or didnt do anything like in my porn video! Sorry baby, I play naughty not nasty! & very upfront about it! I think we providers shud be able to write back to our reviewers or have a site of our own to atleast justify ourselves from the total idiots that ruin it for the real hobbyist and providers!
Glad im not the only who thinks this!
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