This one is a very unreliable person.  I know a few months back when she was in another scandalous conversation, but now I have evinced her wrath.  I was suppose  to meet up with her Thursday morning and she confirmed and even gave me her address, but when I called to let her know that I was on my way, she did not answer.  I  left a message and reminded her of my arrival, so I went anyway and when I got to the complex I called again and she did not answer.  I thought what the hell!  I called her again and left another message.  I got kind of worried about her so when I got back to work I sent her an email message  asking if she was alright.  She never replied.  I guess I should not have been worried.  I learned my lesson.  Aria you are not a good person, but I do wish you prosperity.

I understand your frustration.  I have been on both sides of the cancelation issue over the past month (having been cancelled on and canceling myself both on short notice).  I think that the expectations of a positive encounter along with the planning to bring it to fruition and then taking the time / effort of actually showing up all make the disappointment of no show or miss appointment all the greater.

However, I will say that I had a prescheduled appointment with Aria and on her request for confirmation I advised her that I could not make it.  In her defense, she was very understanding as I had the flue and had hoped to recover before our scheduled time.  Unfortunately time ran out, and my so my cancelation time was only about 12 hours in advance

Please understand (Larry) that is not my intention to say you are wrong.  When I an appointment cancelled on me same day with no hope of rescheduling I was very unhappy (pissed off in fact).  However, I posted a thread on the national discussion board and I decided to keep the provider name anonymous.  And, I am glad I did as I heard from the provider and her explanation was understandable.

In the future you may want to allow more time to pass and allow emotions to cool off.  

Larry,

To your own defense, we've never met and you've never done anything negative towards me, so you needn't worry about "evincing my wrath".

I don't recognize your handle, so I honestly can't say that I know who you are.  Truth be told, I did have an appointment on Thursday that did not come to fruition, but I have been in email contact with that individual, so I'm puzzled.

Please know that it is never my intent to be unreliable.  I do suffer from the occasional brain fart that comes with the chaos of holidays, family in town, children on winter break, and my own unrelenting class schedule.  I've also been the not-so-hapless victim of untimely phone carrier changeovers, loss of internet, and various vehicular mishaps.  (Not all at once, thank goodness.)  

I obviously don't have all the details from your side, so I'm certainly going to reserve any judgement.  (If this was a screw-up on my part, I don't want to look like an asshole by being belligerent about it.)

However, I'm not a bad person.  I do try to keep a good head on my shoulders and treat people the way I like to be treated.  If you had sent me a private email, I would have responded.  Anyone who knows me can vouch for the fact that I'm often an over-communicator.  (Jesus... read my reviews... it's all a nice way of saying, "Good Lord, she talks a LOT!")  I'm getting better, though.  

Chances are good that I would have apologized profusely and offered you a discounted rate.  And while I don't appreciate being flamed publicly, I'm still willing to extend that offer.  You can PM me, email me, or call me.  And not because I'm angered by the accusation, but because I do take you seriously when you say that you were inconvenienced and worried needlessly.

Again, my sincerest apologies.

~Aria

when i saw the word "treacherous" and then you said you "evinced her wrath", i was fully prepared to hear a great story involving a crazed provider frothing at the mouth or an axe or shark infested waters.

the evil woman has petrified you to the point of using an alias ?

because she missed an appointment ?

its a scary world huh ?

Sort of like when a client misses their appointment, you providers go wild with all your wrants and raves.  This was not a mean spirited message but one that kind of mocks someone like you.

is highly likely when dealing with someone with whom english is a second language.

i understand you were trying to convey a message of unreliability and you were correct in your usage of the word treacherous as one definition of that word is unreliable, however, it is most commonly used to describe some sort of danger.

wrath would describe great anger.

so i was expecting a story of anger and danger.

which is why i was laughing at a story of a missed appointment.  you have every right to rant and rave, nobody likes to be inconvienced however, you might consider the language barrier before doing so.

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Hey Miss Anagangbang I am quite sure that I am more educated than you and my english language is fine.  Why don't you go do what you do best and leave intelligent conversations to someone else.  Most "commonly used" is not the definition of the word Miss person.  I was in a hurry I typed it in and then I get some "English Major"  very loosely I might add trying to tell be how to write.  You should get a hobby other than what you do.

Wow, we know life is such that we never have family emergencies,work crisis' etc.  I've seen this sweet lady many, many times and the few times she's had to cancel or reschedule were all for good reasons ! That hardly qualifies as 'unreliable'! I had to cancel on her last week with just 5 minutes notice due to a work issue that came up. She was cool about it even though she'd had to re-arrange her family plans for our appt.  I realize that when it happens, it can be frustrating as you've made the plans, re-arranged your own schedule, etc. As in all our relationships, work or personal, sometimes you just have to be a little patient and have some understanding.  Sorry you had to have this happen, but don't be so hasty to condemn next time !  Peace !
bf

Your reply speaks very well of how you handle yourself.  You're neither confrontational nor belligerant, and would obviously like to iron this out.  Frankly, after reading "Larry's" whining rant, I feel you're much too nice for him, but that's your decision.  My suggestion is to let him move on, if that's his attitude.
Hope your Holidays went well, and looking forward to seeing you again soon!

loosely translated i take this to mean

oh wow beauty, brains and a spunky yet sweet disposition all in the same package, she must be a national treasure.

yeppers i am
thanks for noticing.

i used the eastern european decoder manual, i hope that was the right one.



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Last time I figured my numbers, 28 percent of my planned encounters never happened, most on the providers end, but a few on mine as well....

It is very frustrating when you don't know the "Why" of the missed connection, or you get an unreasonable excuse....

I am VERY grateful that I have never missed connecting with my two ATFs....

Don't dwell on it, and move on the the next chance for a fun experience....

RocketMan36

You said that you had a morning appointment that got screwed up ... but then instead of giving her the benefit of doubt and waiting a bit (would 24 hours be too much to ask?) to hear back from her you got on the board and slammmed her.  That really wasn't very fair at all, was it?  Things happen in the real world that affect this fantasy world.

Missed appointments suck - but they happen and sometimes with very good reason.  Don't be so quick to make judgements - how do you know she is not a good person?

You used the wrong decoder manual as you should have used the ebonics manual that we had in the hood!  We be using dat dere book back home.  To think, me be having a masters degree and I still talk like dis! Help me talk better, please!

Someone talked about my mother, another talked about my language, another talked about my heritage.  I am sorry man, I didn't mean it!  Actually I love Aria she is definitley in the top two for the sexiest women I have seen but never met here in Phoenix.  I am sorry if my grammar is bad, next time I will consider my post as a term paper or a thesis.

any girl taking your call after your "treacherous" post about a well reviewed provider.  If you didn't like the so called "scandal" you thougt Aria was in, why would you want to make an appointment with her.

Try not to over use a Thesaurus next time should you make a post

unfortunately english isnt a perfect language.

your post implied aria was dangerous when you were trying to imply she was unreliable.

i wasnt attacking your intelligence nor your education, but your familiarity with the nuances of the english language.  something that is not taught in a classroom.  english words may have one definition in the dictionary and a different definition "on the street".

i know that aria is not unreliable and since i initially misunderstood the meaning of your post, i was suggesting that perhaps there was a miscommunication that caused the missed appointment.

im not sure why you found that so offensive.

Thesaurus?  You are crazy!  I do not need a Thesaurus especially when writing on a message board.  I do not have to impress anyone.  If you do not like it then you can go play with yourself.  

By the way if you looked as good as Aria I would make a date with you.  And yes the ladies are still taking my calls. I still have money and I am not a cop.  I tell the truth of what happened and I get slammed.  I love it!!!  Keep up the good work.

Okay, Okay, I finally looked up the word treacherous and took in consideration what were trying to tell me and looks as if the 4th definition would be the one that I intended the message not to mean.  It looks like semantics to me.

1. characterized by faithlessness or readiness to betray trust; traitorous.


2. deceptive, untrustworthy, or unreliable.


3. unstable or insecure, as footing.


4. dangerous; hazardous: a treacherous climb.

it is most commonly used as its 4th definition. in fact, it is almost always used as its 4th definition.

the rule is that the first definition is the most commonly used.

as you're well aware from your studies, all rules of english have exceptions.  this is one of the exceptions....

i dont think "someone like me" could possibly be smarter than you and i was a political science major, not an english major, but i have spoken the language longer.

im sure aria has by now informed you that she had you down as a no-call no-show.

sounds as if there was a miscommunication.  i hope you apologized to her and then thanked her for not "ranting and raving" about you missing the appointment as we providers always do.

right now your experiencing the main reason negative reviews are never written about certain people.they have a very responsive network of protectors. however let the same thing happen to these guys by an unknown and they raise all kinds of hell about it.

dont call anyone a bad person because they missed an appointment its not a fair representation. that was going way over the line and i hope you apologized

i would recommend in the future waiting 24 hours before dropping the bomb but thats really a personal choice.

hey at least your not out any cash just your time.

Do I need to pull out my wooden spoon and separate you two??

First and foremost, the screw-up was my fault.  'Larry' and I have been in email contact privately and I owned up to the fact that I dropped the ball.  Providers don't often employ secretaries or admins, which can be a drawback to seeing an indy lady.  (Though one of the benefits is that it rarely 'feels' like business when one gal handles all contact from start to happy ending.)  

Larry,
Not speaking in semantics, you DID intend the post to convey unreliable, unstable, traitorous, etc. ...And did include specifics as to the lack of goodness in my character.  It's harsh language any way you look at it, and it did hurt my reputation and my business.  Bad publicity sucks, plain and simple.  If I deserve it, fine... but don't apologize and backtrack in private and continue to defend what is already a moot argument.  It belies your level of education to even participate.

Ana,
I understand exactly what you're saying about the English language and its imperfect use.  No one uses 'The Queen's English' any more and I find myself turning to the urban dictionary just as often as m-w.com these days.  I saw the initial post with the word 'treacherous' and my blood ran cold.  As they'd say in the south, "Them's fightin' words!"

Regardless of anyone's level of education or misuse of the English language, it was a hastily written (by his own admission) and unfair post.

I hope that my reputation will speak for how reliable, stable, and 'good' I really am.  


Now... can't we all just get along?

You should have given Aria a chance to explain why she missed the appointment before you posted something so negative about her. Her reputation speaks for itself and all you were trying to do was hurt her. She showed class in her response to you and even emailing you with an explanation. Now it’s your turn to use that Masters Degree and show some class also and stop all this negative BS. If she’s still willing to see you I hope you post some thing positive about her and offer up an apology. Aria is right enough is enough. I just had to get my 2 cents in.

evinced her wrath

frothing at the mouth crazed provider with a wooden spoon might even be treacherous.

how big is this spoon ?

aria - spank me

LOL

You and I need to meet and battle it out.  Your replys have made me realize that I might just love you!

as soon as aria sends me a good reference on ya.

cuz you got her all riled up and now she's armed with a wooden spoon and even IF i could strap down my boobs securely enough to not knock myself unconscious, and thats a pretty big IFFIE, i'm not so sure i could out run her.

she's got some reaaaasaaaly long legs

wooden spank marks on my sweet ass would NOT be good for biz i dont think. even if they were, i dont want them.

but the only way to get anything good out of this whole mess is to really take it 1 step sicker.

if you can convince aria to make it up to you by agreeing to let me pop her doubles cherry i'll agree to come over to her couch and take turns spanking your ass with that spoon.

Why, Ana... I have to admit that I guffawed out loud!!  I can't believe you spilled the beans about my virginity.    
(Well, of the 'doubles' variety, anyhow.)

I'd happily share my wooden spoon with you!  We shall take turns and let the paddling commence!

And here I thought it was going to be just another mundane week...  

hey I like that idea of the two, but without the spoon unless I am using it on one of you.  It sound sort of exciting to me.  So when do we commence?

i hate to pat myself on the back (it requires the use of fingers better used somewhere else) but i knew i was gonna fix this whole mess the moment i entered this thread.

it may not be obvious at first, but im a very goal- oriented person (the goal being getting nekkid and being very very bad while avoiding spanks)

right now my peeps and aria's peeps are making the necessary arrangements and i predict that larry is gonna be one happy camper in the near future.

hi ho hi ho, off to cherry poppin i go