Can attest from experience, that given a certain amount of trust has been established, there is nothing more fun than being in a fabulous restaurant with a sumptuous meal laid out for you, unsuspecting people out for a civilized evening, and staring into the eyes of your date, knowing he has total control of your "experience".  Maybe it's part voyeurism, part being "naughty", and part anticipation..never knowing what is going to come next.  Whatever the draw, it is one of the most erotic and exciting things I have ever done.  The visual factor alone..trying to make any face that doesn't hint at your shared secret; it builds a great amount of suspense and anticipation; two elements that make for a better time to be had by all when you are finally behind closed doors.  In a world of instant gratification; we have forgotten the delicious minutes, hours, and sometimes even days, wanting, waiting, dreaming of what is to come :