I wonder if a lot of men do it?

Cancelling out in either direction unless you it's out of your control is no good.


HH

A lot of people like to double book, the first one is usually someone new that they really want to see, the second one is their backup usually a regular. It's a perfect plan, hell I would do it if I had a dick and a city full of women.

If I'm the backup just tell me, I don't fucking care. What I care about is my time wasted and lame high school excuses when canceling at the last minute. That means I shaved and did something with my hair for nothing damn it lol.

I've had a hobbyist tell me I was his backup and the first one came through for him, and that he would catch me the next time around. Because he was honest and did not waste my precious time by letting me know his plan he will be highly rewarded

Next time he pulls this shit on you; you just call me and give me that reward.

How would he like it if he’s was sitting at home waiting on you to arrive when he gets a call from you telling him you just a got a call from one of your regulars and will be making a U-turn to go to his place. Sorry Jack no fucky me today maybe another time.

Now what’s he goanna do sitting there with a hard on and a playboy mag in his hand?

It happens all the time with hobbyist and providers it's rude behavior all the way around. I just do the baseball analogy 2 strikes and you're out with me, I'm not waiting for the third strike.

This post was my mass announcement, I'm not a complicated creature, just slightly crazy lol so you guys don't have to lie to me. I'm sure there's a lot more providers out there that have the same request just be honest with us.

....some like to just lie about as to know "hurt your feelings" lol oh please what we really care about is  yes 1. time wasted getting prepared for them and 2. money lost from turning down another hobbyist that wasnted a  date around he same time/duration as the double-booker.  And maybe it's just me but when I focus in on someone I really want I'm not going to seriously bother with a backup.  *shrugs*

Thats all any of us want is the truth.  I have been told a lot of lies when a provider canceled on me. i would have much rather had the truth no matter what it was.  One of the worst excuses I ever got was about 6 months ago from an ATF. She cancelled on me about 2 hours before our appointment. she said she was having an attack of the morals and had decided not to see me . there were some other rediculous details involved but I sure couln't believe that reasoning especially since she is still a provider. I would have much rather just been told the truth. I might add that I was never late or never cancelled on this lady. So yeah, I agree with Bailey lets be honest!!

Morals did apply with a boyfriend in the picture, once the boyfriend was out of the picture why not go back to being a provider. Now do you want to continue down this road on the public board since you like to live in the past so much?

Not going down any road.Nor do I want to. Just think people should practice what they preach. most definatley am not now or ever living in the past.  Also I might add Until now there was only one person that may have known who I was speaking of. thats no fault of mine.

Guess things changed.  But it was not hard figuring out your forst post....

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1110650

For a Lady that doesn't play often and enjoys  keeping my companions happy.  Honesty is so important to me. Your right! Some of us, work around their schedule.  Good to know if it will be a 50/50 chance of meeting.

I would be so fustrating if my social/ personal lifes gets put on hold for a lier, or someone that has alterior motives.  It's nice to have a back up plan for sure- Even for the ladies.

Respect goes two ways...
I'll stay with my Quality dates- that respect my time.  


Great post Ms Bailey...

...a trip to Le Girls or Babe's. As long as I get a little lovin' and attention from a naked woman, I'm good.  I've never had a lady cancel at the last minute on me. Those rare times when a provider did have to cancel, in each case, she was cool enough and professional enough to give me plenty of notice so I could call someone else on my wishlist.

No, your fault would be not emailing your so called atf for an appointment when you seen she was back on the scene. Instead you take the coward way out and try to diss her on the public board......

So you decided to get out your jumbo spoon and stir the pot by posting that wtf? lol

You're absolutely right, I'm so sorry Vince at least you had the balls not to hide behind an alias to say your piece........kudos

Bailey, i didn't intend to start a shit storm on here. what I said was only for you and you would have been the only one to know what and who I was speaking of. You know there was more to it than my statement anyway. and as for me being a coward. You know better and anybody that knows me know better. After all you just gave me Kudos for NOT using an alias. well the shitstorm can continue or not I am not writing anymore on this subject. And Just for the record Yed the review was very nice and very true!

I have NEVER “double-booked” and in four years, as I have never found it necessary. In that time I have only cancelled two “Pre-booked Appointments,” (both were due to illness) and can count on one hand the number of Ladies who have cancelled on me.

I have known Bailey a long time and she NEVER double booked me and has always been fair and honest with me about her availability.

This is NOT meant to be a Review of a terrific Lady with excellent “Operating Standards.” That being said, I still think the assholes that use “Aliases” shouldn’t be allowed to “Post.” Their opinions, submitted behind the veil of another “Alias” (isn’t our “Handle” alias enough?) are NOT worth reading, therefore should NOT be “Posted.”

At least Vince, as misguided as his comments were (Bailey is correct – you should have PM’d her!) didn’t hide who he was.

You got some things right except Bailey should have PMed me if she was upset with my post. If you read the first post I put on this subject there is no info in the post that IDs who I am speaking of. As I said already I didn't start the shitstorm. maybe you didn't read my post. i also didn't say anything about Bailey Double-booking. Nothing in my post about that at all. And I wasn't trying to Diss her either.

... and if it does, then I can certainly understand why you would be frustrated.  If I were in your shoes, Bailey, it wouldn't help to know I was the back-up.  That, in itself, would be an insult.   Sometimes real life intrudes and cancellations by either party can happen, but it's a pretty deceitful person that sets up a situation where a cancellation is the most likely outcome.  

Don't tolerate it.  From my side, I would never go back to a lady who did the same to me.  I've had my share of lame excuses... stubbed toe, car accident, dental emergency.... and if I don't have good reason to believe it's true, then I never try to book a date for another time.

Skibeach

I’m gone for a few hours and this all shit hits the fan. Okay kiddies it’s time to sit down and play nice nice or I’m going to tell your mommies.

So the shit storm didn't hit your side of town? lol Yeah my bad, but I don't back down from insults or attacks against me from anyone

keep on airing the dirty laundry, its friggin funny! Please sell the rights to a Mexican TV station cus they have all the tits and ass on without censors compared to a U.S. soap opera! One thing I am alittle concerned was, if I see Bailey, if she gets mad at me, will she bring to a public discussion board? I cant wait for the responses!

I don't necessarily double book, but when I leave to go to an appt I always have a backup girl or two who's number I have written down. And it has happened to me. I show up, make the 2nd call and no answer or call back. I move on, and I can't remember ever going back to one of the ncns. Though I do think it is rude to double book both sides do it and I for one don't like it.

That comment was unprofessional bailey. Are you a provider who cannot be trusted to be discreet? Yes, I'm calling you out on this one, with an "ear fuck" (as you call it) from ol' HalfHour

Until you revealed the "story" , it had not been spread around With the players that are on the board. Now, it is common knowledge, including in the *real *local community that goes to the parties and M&Gs. That's  on you, not vince59


Vince59 made a straightforward comment in the thread. IN NO WAY did itlook as if he was pointing a finger towards you. The finger IS now pointed at you, and the finder is yours. If you felt it had undertones of a personal experience between you two you should have PMed him.

(Note to White Knights: His comment was discreet. It had value to the post. Grow some balls and stop trying to win Ladypoints by saying V59 should have PMed )


Bailey, you don't care about any of that. You've told me so directly and I'm sure everyone knows here it. Why? Not because you 'are strong.' Reacting in in personal offence and blurting out indescretions is not a sign of strength in any scenario - actually it's a sign of fragility, and weakness, possibly instability.

What ever is going on, "it's all about you" bailey. You are the biggest attention seeker with no filters and no restraint that has been seen around these parts in a long time. A "drama queen" as has been suggested.


Even if you are funny, hot, sexy, have regulars, ae nice toward clients with penile implants, are successful, etc, etc, etc. What you just posted was fucked up and crossed accepatable boundaries, and created the very "drama and bickering" that you post about.

As the accomplished athelete that you are, you look in the mirror all the time to assess your physical aesthetic, your exterior, as it were, and how you present it to others under scrutiny. You are good at that and have earned recognitions.

Now it's time to look in the mirror and not be distracted by your outer perfection. Look in the mirror of your attitude, your thoughts, your expressions, on this board in public. Look close and you will see that what you present to others is the very stuff that "bickering and drama" are made of.

You have managed to drive some good posters away from this board. I know this first hand. Why don't you do a reality check and move toward being a part of a collective that enjoys so much of what you have to offer, as opposed trying to be to the center of attention of a group you create to surround you and adore you?.

You won't drive me away from the board, no matter how many PMs you send me insulting my posts are and telling me how much you don't like me. You don't really know me as HalfHour. In fact, you don't even know if you've fucked me, now do you? Like me or not, I am not the only person who thinks this way.

I don't dislike you one bit! I'm glad you are here and this is not personal between us...

I'm talking about you crossing a line, bailey. And that is something that is VERY telling. It was uncool bullshit and you *alone* are the source. If that is not who you really are then you got some soul searching and some work to do.

Here is what I hope you will thhink about

There is an ancient proverb that talks about how a person who is faithful in small matters is faithful in matters of greater importance. This idea has stood the test of time. What are you faithful in? Discretion of your clients? As long as they don't piss you off?

A modern related idea is that the greatest indicator of future behavior is past behavior. In studies of predictive human behavior it's been noted that serial killers often hurt animals as children. Put that together -- the part about what is known about people and progressive behavior -- and it is not a stretch to say that someone who will be indiscreet and reveal lesser potentially damaging things in public is likely to be the person who reveals more important things and very damaging things in public in the future.

Get the point? I hope you do.

In the back of peoples minds will be questions like:

"Who would be the provider that flips on clients if they get in trouble?"

"Who would be the provider to put a guy's personal information on a national blacklistif he angers her?"

Before you get mad and flip out and my "ear fuck" let me tell you straight:

I'm writing this because I THINK you are awesome, BUT... *You need a wake-up call in this area.*

That's it. Nothing more. I wish you the best and look forward to "seeing you here on the board.


HalfHour

Holy crappola! A royal bologna sandwich on whiteknight bread!

Sir V59 made a perfectly straight forward of a  general idea.

No need to rescue the damsel on this one, good sir, her distress is self inflicted. Twas the lady who abandoned sensibility, and donned the crown of drama.

Besides, this fair maiden need be rescued from anything. I dare say could smite any dragon completely on her own, even though she has no 'sword'!


HalfHour