Well yet another session lands in the toilet. While I've met some ladies who absolutely love a large man, a fair number of the ladies I have seen recently clearly would prefer otherwise. As much of my sexual enjoyment is predicated on the enjoyment either real or faked by my partner, when I can tell she is uncomfortable or at worst in pain, it obviously ruins the experience for me.  

I have some clients who are well endowed who I can't seem to get enough of, but I have some that I'm in pain the entire time. I think it really does come down to each person individually, and also how well they know how to use their size. Some guys literally think they can go around sticking that thing every where and it's not going to hurt. However, some guys understand there is certain positions that can make things more pleasurable for a woman if you're more well endowed.

Can you hear that? Listen, do you hear it?  Ssshhhhhhh

I've had some pretty big cock on film and trust me there was a lot of preparation involved, including using ice to numb myself down there and lots of lube and even vaseline and even then it required that I take a toke of some strong weed (I don't smoke) and a couple drinks.
My vaginal canal is small.
I prefer average to small penis. 7" is perfect.

Yeah yeah, next you will tell us that you are insanely rich, speak 12 languages, and are also underwear model.

Are you too long? Too thick?

LOL! Say hi to your wife for me Fear.

HA!  If I was married or ever planned to be, that would almost piss me off.
 

I have the same issue as OP. The funny thing is, I used to be quite the player when I more fit/athletic looking and never had a problem. In fact, most women loved how big I was. I'm heavier now and don't feel comfortable/confident enough to date so I've entered to hobby and it was an issue with the last provider that I saw. My sexual enjoyment is completely tied to the enjoyment of my partner as well and I went flaccid as soon as I realized it was painful for her. Sucks, but I feel your pain OP. I will let you know if I find anyone who enjoys well-endowed men.

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Kind of like Midnight basketball was used to reduce gangs, the government should provide free gym memberships and personal chefs to hobbyists to reduce provider demand and get hobbyists back in shape for outside women.

Hey, I own it. Lol. No shame in my game.