I have seen a few providers recently, and noticed that in each case, the provider seemed to take  control of the pace of the interaction and the behavior that we were performing-- which was not as totally enjoyable for me as I would have liked.... Do providers feel most comfortable controlling things in this manner?  I would have liked to take more time and just experience the beauty of the women I was with without "Slam, bang, let's get this going" type of environment and "let's get to the 'Tab-A, Slot B' thing ASAP! I understand that she gets to enjoy herself as well, and I definetely am interested in providing enjoyment for her as well as myself, but still...  I'm not shy, but I just have felt rushed and it really detracted from the overall experience.  What's the consensus?

I was recently told by a provider, whose name shall remain anonymous, that she tends to follow an outline during sessions. She said she does this because the majority of her clientele are not overly assertive during the session and need the direction to keep things flowing. She also said occasionally she sees a client who is imaginative and therefore she allows the client to contribute to the direction of the session.

It is kinda nice to have someone else lead I don't mind doing it myself though As long as everyone is having fun

No we don't have to be in control...I always try to pace myself and see how my gent responds...a few encounters that I've experienced where the gent does nothing so I take that as him wanting me to be the aggressor. On only a few occasions he just plane does nothing...so I do move things along, basically hoping he wakes up and gets involved...but never to the extent "just get it over with"

I always let the gent move at his pace...I'm in no hurry and haven't seen anyone complaints about it.

I think if you have had some bad experiences, you may need to read some current reviews. You're not picking the right ladies, baby cause lots of us good ones out in play land!!!


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Terri