Reo you know how to read between the lines??

Well, in my humble opinion, any serious hobbyist would surely prefer a well rounded lady. There is so much more than just being exceptional in bed, although I'm sure a fair amount of men who dabble in this wonderful hobby, only care about the sex.

I would also believe that gentlemen who consider themselves "regulars" are more concerned with the other fine attributes that a first rate provider has to offer. I would be interested to hear from the providers, as to what they think.

The wisest words ever spoken to me, from my late grandfather;"remember, you always get what you pay for, so pay a little more, and always get the best."  By the way he passed a very happy man with a huge smile on his face.

The LUVBUDDA has spoken.

Intellectual Intercourse

Mya,
I think your post made some great sense...I find that I may not get as many calls because I am not 5'9, fake boobs, and tight as a body builder, but I do have many friends of mine that prefer a well rounded woman over someone who would not be able to have such great conversation on a date.  Sure, I take great care of my self, great pride in my lifestyle and the choices I make, work out regularly, and keep up with the latest fashions in lingerie...but to some that is not enough.  
In my experience, My friends know that I would be suitable to go out in public with, take out for a night on the town or just relax by the pool with a margarita.  Some of my favorite friends appreciate the fact that I am an  educated hottie instead of just a hottie.  
Personally, I love intellectual men, and women, at that...I think that you can only get so far with sexuality, and if you have nothing but that to offer....what do you do when the date is over??  Collect your things and leave??  
Keeping a good relationship and developing that bond between friends makes the dates even hotter and the friendships even stronger.  

Hope this insight helped...
Kisses to you,
Madison
XXXXOOOO

"Different strokes for different folks" should be the title of this thread. Different guys seek different things at different times. The key is communication (verbal and non-verbal) and at different emotional and intellectual and physical levels. We are all a bit different. If either party is not complete in the area of communication, it can be strained.

I think, to answer the question, we all want "value". Sometimes, I just need to "get done". Sometimes I want a GFE. If I am left with a smile that lasts for more than 24 hours (and that can be caused by many things), it was an incredible experience and I will return. That means, she gave me what I want because she could easily discerene what I wanted, she treated me like I was the only person in the world (I am sorry to sound rude, but honestly, I do not want to here about any kind of personal drama in your life - I am not here to be personally supportive unless you want to be my friend, or date me - that means being late, talking about problems, not being ready, etc. and that seems to be going on a lot lately), she spoiled me in very basic ways (and some things are pretty basic - and a lot of ladies do not do them - an example would be to get me a warm wet towel), to smile and be charming from the beginning to the end. To smile on the way out the door as she leaves so peacefully and gracefully.

Rates vary. Ladies vary. Moods vary. Guys vary. He says potato, I say putato. Reviews are only as good as the guy another guy knows who has the same taste.

As a note, I have been with a lot of ladies I would not want as my date in public, but I have seen them many times.

Eye candy is in the eye of the beholder.

Class is subjective depending on anyone's personal definition of class.

Personally, I enjoy the social functions. not to "hang out" with the ladies, but to see who I think has the "class, eye candy and ability to do the things below" at the level I enjoy. References from someone you know, or being able to meet a lady first (social, etc) is the best screening a guy can do. Though there are some looking to put "notches in their belt" only, and that is their perogative. Public boards tend to be full of biased, screened, shilled reviews. Which is why I never use them. Yea, ocassionaly you can still get burned by someone you know giving you a reference. Their understanding of what you are looking for can be subjective. But should not if you are looking them in the eye discussing "details".

One thing is certain. Any woman who knows how to make a man feel beautiful, intelligent, strong, sensitive, desired, craved, safe, will get repeat customers (key is, that is different for different guys), if she is priced fairly in the market - or competitively for the services she provides (and again, not to be rude, but some "think" they are better than they are and some do not know how good they are

Oh, and Mya, you are g-g-g-g-great!  And Isabella, if she would ever return my calls (he says grinning, waiting for the cosmic day when our schedules align).

Peace,
W

So are you saying you're a "smart-ass"??  **slap**  

Cheers!

Just check my schedule, and I am all yours....
Also, please know I have that policy not because I think I am better than anyone. I am just BETTER, period when I have a planned rendezvous rather than a last minute date.  That is just how my body operates.  And I always want to be my best. I always want to give 110%. When I finally meet you for a date, I hope that you will feel that from me.    

Ciao,
xoxoxox
Isabella

PS.  I stay clear of drama and dislike petty gossip.  I realize that I am there for you, and you are always what I focus on. If you ask about me, I am more than willing to tell you, otherwise it is always about you.  

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...I have to do some "wandering" around the country. I get back early October. I will give you ample notice, because after meeting you, I find you cute, playful and stunning. A rare combination...

You're right. Reviews often lack clarity, verity, and believability.

BUT remember, interestingly enough, that "We consider all reviews to be fictional stories that are posted by TER solely for entertainment purposes." (TER's review submission page)

Suffice it to say an "amazing all around" provider will be amazingly engaging, sexual, and beautiful and probably be able to better create the most exquisite encounter than if she were not amazing in all categories. I don't care for quick anonymous moments myself nearly as much as longer more sensuous ones.

But how about providers who won't book unless the gentleman posts reviews. A well-known such person in LA has that policy. Anyone know anyone else? And anyone want to venture WHY?? (I've developed some understanding over time.) Interested to hear peoples' thoughts.

Reo you know how to read between the lines??

I have to agree with my old friend Wanderer. He has been a trusted pooner advisor to me and while at times we have different tastes and likes he has allot of poon wisdom.

I actually take much of the board reviews with a grain of salt and do a great deal of reading between the lines.

When it comes to the best experiences it is with someone you can fantasize about later as well. Someone that get’s you excited all over again when you think about the encounter the next day. For me if that woman makes me feel like I’m the most important thing in her world for that time I’m pretty happy. But if she can make me feel like I’m an old friend and very comfortable I’m even happier. Now I have been with some very gorgeous women whose attitude kept it from being a great experience and with some average women whose sensuality drives you nuts. If they are the whole package above then that is a fantastic experience. I have to say that I have been very lucky to have had some of the total packages and those instances I remember the others I usually forget in short order. Atmosphere is so important. Mya I have to say sweetness you are the total package with the perfect blending. One of these days I will have to experience a rendezvous with Isabella when I can get my schedule to match hers that is if you will give me a good reference Mya…

Reo you know how to read between the lines??

Hey occular -- why don't you ask me to give you a good reference for Isabella? Talk about total package and then some. Imagine adding Mya and Isabella --- I did.... still do......

Reo you know how to read between the lines??

Actually my friend that is one I have given serious thought to. However like the Ironman competition on the Big Island I think I would need to go into training for it and when it was over they should give me a T-shirt to commemorate the event. After which I would celebrate with a commemoritive tattoo.

I actually have something in late January that I will want to celebrate and the two of them just might be the perfect celebration. Mmmmmmmmm sounds like a plan.

But four can be an interesting number, don't you think?

That's the next question. Too be continued....