I mentioned a couple days ago how much I had visiting Phoenix, including a couple fine dates. I also mentioned a NCNS and a couple guys thought I should mention her on the Board here. I'm not sure. Here's the story. I do my research and planning a couple weeks ahead, wanting it to all work out great. She's well reviewed on TER but apparently not VIP....we talk by phone and text, she okays me with minimal screening, we have another fun text chat a week ahead and set up a definite day with exact time to be set later. She gave me approximate incall location. A couple days before, I get no text or phone reply, but she emails back saying she lost her phone and gives me the new number. We confirmed a time, had to be afternoon she said because of Halloween parties the night before and the night of our date. OK. I ask if she's sure it's a good idea to meet between good parties. Yes indeed she says. She says she will call that day to give exact location for our 3pm meet. I email and text and phone her (on the new number)asking for exact location. No answer....she goes completely dark. I leave a message that it's ok if she needs to cancel, but I just need to know so I don't blow the afternoon. No reply. I sit around her general location til 3:30, then leave. Next day I leave a voice message and send an email asking what happened and saying I didn't appreciate not hearing anything. Said I needed to know by last night if she had anything to say. Nothing. I do know that if I had heard even one account in advance like mine, I would not have chosen her, despite the reviews. I've already given more time and thought to this post than she gave to our entire encounter, and I'm about done with it. Any thoughts?
She should be named if, after telling her you will, you still don't hear something in a week or so. I had one well reviewed girl NCNS me years ago. I later saw her & had a great time and found out that she had a major crisis in her life unfold the day we were to meet. Kept her running for days. A call or text would have been nice, but under the circumstances I understood. Yours ought to be able to tell you something within a week if there's a legitimate excuse for what was otherwise unacceptable unprofessional behavior.
i think it should be mentioned. we all are watching our free time especially if you are traveling, so it only makes sense that we are notified of the flaky providers so that we can make better selection. this also rewards the girls that are timely and respectful of this critical concern.
you play a key role in ensuring that poor service will thrive.
however, she will most likely counter-attack with the 50 things that you did wrong, real, imagined or fabricated.
it's always difficult to be the first one to step forward, but you may find that there are others who have already went through this with her, who will substantiate the story.
sorry your visit didnt live up to your expectations.
Absolutely you should post her name. Since you cannot post a review for a girl that NCNS, it is important that there is a "record" on the Phoenix board of this. I search reviews as well as message boards to get as much info as I can on a provider. If this was an isolated incident, then I would perhaps give her the benefit of the doubt. If several people post the same experience, at the least I would have plan b in mind.
This board is first and foremost for the hobbyist's to share information on providers.
Let me now put my money where my mouth is. I have seen Tatum on two occasions and she is second to none as far as totally fullfilling my sexual fantasies. She is about as good as it gets for young spinner types. However, When I first started hobbying last winter I drove all the way out to Chandler for a scheduled session, only to be strung along for over 3.5 hours at her complex before I finally left. She assured me after the first hour that she would call me back soon with the apartment #. I waited patiently for another hour only to be left waiting again. I almost gave up the hobby before I ever got started. So there you have it, Tatum is a flake, but when you do finally get to see her, she will rock your world.
I do think you should post. Because without it there will be no record and we, the hobbyists, will not know about this. I also agree, this does affect whether I make an appt with a lady or not.
Yes, I think you should say who it is. That kind of info is valuable to everybody. I also think that the entire story should be told (seems that you have at least mostly done that already) to put it into context.
Seems to me that you have been more than understanding already.
After giving the lady some time to respond. When I had mine, last year, I outed her.
With todays technology, one is always able to communicate, with anyone anytime.
It was Krista (133374) who left me in the cold on an 85 degree Saturday afternoon in Phoenix. No word that day or since, even after my inquiries. Her reviews are great, and I was really looking forward to seeing her. Caveat emptor.....maybe she is best for a short notice call....my efforts to set it up for sure over a couple weeks were a waste (though she gave some nice chat!). If I do hear back from her, I will let you know. Phoenix was fun, and I hope to get back sometime.
OMG, I had forgotten about Krista who did the same thing to me about the same time as Tatum. Just a few days apart as a matter of fact. It was a 9am appointment and she called me around 9:15 and told me she overslept and wouldn't be able to see me. Again it was about 25 miles from my house.
here really does not do a lot of good.
Sorry it happened to you at all.
Obviously, I had not thought of that.
But it really would be advantageous to be able to alert if they're a NC/NS other than just posting on the boards. There really ought to be something in place to warn others! -I mean not a "review" per se, but just something so that they know.
I feel for the future hobbyists who miss this alert and go through the same thing.
I guess using "search" and typing in her name would be helpful, but some never think to do that.
Have a great day!
XOXOXOXO
We should also have the same option for gentlemen who NCNS on us. I think anyone who does that without a good reason (like an emergency) is not professional, and it's just rude.
Have a great week, and I hope things get better for you!
Hugs,
Ciara