Okay guys, do you really follow through when a provider recommends another provider?  Do you mention the girl who gave you the recommendation?

I am always recommending girls who seem to suit what the guy is looking for. Even had a few guys email and tell me thanks and that they had a great time.

That is very gracious of you.

I have never had a provider refer me to another. Some have asked me if I have seen a certain provider they know. But that is as close about mentioning other ladies that I have experienced.

I think I might lean toward taking the recomendation.

You have to have a trust and confidence level with the people that are making the recommendations.

As an example, I recently spent a week in Phoenix. Every single provider that I saw, except 1, was a recommendation from either AZMisty, From 85003, or HiddenHills, or a combination of the 3 of them.

The 1 provider that I saw on my own, (without their recommendation) turned out to be a NCNS.

I had the best time that week in Phoenix, then any trip that I have taken yet.

Recommendations Are Just That ....

As a hobbyist it’s still up to me to do the research checking several of her past reviews.
I still look for my preferences, and compare reviews for services provided and consistencies of services.

Bottom line is it is still up to me to make the choice, and live with the consequences good or bad.

Yes, I heard it myself once - a provider telling a client she would not give him a reference to see another girl. She actually told the guy the other girl had Herpes which was a lie.

A frequent poster/helper/provider on here threatened a poor guy at his job that he had better get her girlfriend hired or else. Misuse of personal info was a nightmare for the poor guy. Lasted 4 months till they finally left him alone.

I recommend girls I have personally worked with doing doubles. I know how they "provide" as I am right there in the middle of it.

Of whom my gentlemen friends speak highly.
It's not my time or money I can just recommend someone but in the end it's not up to me.

I too know of women on here or who have been banned, who don't have the guy's best interest at heart.

But personally I have and do recommend a number of ladies who have good reputations both with guys AND gals who are not my "friends" but who I am familiar with.  And this is both locally and nationally too.  I truly believe in helping the guy have the best experience possible, whether it is with me or with another lady as I truly believe in karma. And if I can help another lady out then someday that help will be returned to me.  

For proof of this, the recommendations I recently personally made to Chicagohotdog were numerous ladies who I am not "friends" with but know of their great service & reputation from clients and gals who have personally dealt with them.  AND there was NO monetary benefit to me whatsoever. I also yesterday gave a recommendation of a gal in another state to a client who is travels alot and seeks my recommendations all the time.  She is not a "friend" but rather someone who I did research on, asked around about & spoke with personally.  Again with no monetary benefit to me at all. Just want to make sure he has a good time, gets his monies worth, and is in a safe situation.  

Again, I believe it will come back around to me some day...aka Karma...paying it forward, etc.

But because there is a lot that goes on "behind the scenes" as you put it, it does help to get other opinions, whether it is from a guy or gal or even both.

if you dont' have the balls to name the provider, what's the point of bringing it up and casting a shadow on all of us ?

i understand you might not want to speak out against specific providers, but if you bring something up and you don't name her, then you're really speaking out against all of us.

marilyn, weren't you just saying this board needed a to be a lil bit less wussy ?  or were you talking about JEFFREY ?

all you have to do is PM me.  

I dont want my thread pulled faster than a NY minute. LOL.

This way, I can spread the word to anyone who gives a shit

and this is not just a nasty paranoid rumor because your phones are not ringing

My phone is ringing, I just don't need to post a week on the board about having an appointment. OOPS, two weeks wasn't it?

I outed her before and I was barred from posting because it was "attacking" her.

I have proof and will gladly show the emails to anyone. Of course, I will be barred from posting again.

But posting it publically is against TER policy.
Trust me, if I could post it- I would.

a thank you.

if i know her well enough, i'll return the favor.

if you're sending your guys to other providers and the provider isn't so much as asknowledging the favor, much less returning it, then i certainly wouldn't keep recommending her.

yeah i like helping my guys with referrals that i know will suit them but if a provider can't show basic common courtesy, she's not as suitable as i thought she was.

from phx and other cities

I get emails from clients that maybe traveling to cities that I've visited...they ask if I can recommend someone....I'll send them a link to her web site and reviews, I'll then in turn let her know that a gent by the name of ---- from -- will be contacting you. He may or may not that's up to him but so far so good.

I take that as a compliment as I know he respects my opinion and my judgement

I also tell all my clients that I will always give them a reference but I sure don't like when I do give a reference and I get an email back from her saying he's an idiot just based on the either emails or phone calls didn't ever meet....WTF especially when I know they are really nice. I would never give an ok on someone if I thought otherwise....and if there is something out of the ordinary I will disclose that to her and then it's up to her to see or not to see but they are not idiots

Terri

Because it was germane to the topic.  

shes always been a favorite and i met her from a referral or an argument i forget

Good question!

I have been referred many times and I am very thankful for that to the ladies who referred the client to me, and I have done the same in return as I could. Being low volume does not render that opportunity very often. I have even researched for clients who cannot do so due to time restraints or privacy issues, ladies they are interested in visiting.

The beauty of it is that once we have seen someone a few times, we get to know them a little, and I feel that THAT is the key. We then can help them fulfill their wishes/fantasies and refer them if there is someone we think they would like or who provides something that we do not or is there when we cannot be there. There is no reason NOT to!!

I agree that it is all gonna come out in the wash so to speak and I want my client to be happy! None of them are really "MY" client anyway, they are human beings with a free will and choice. Most, I end up friends wih and I am not the jealous type.



Have a great day y'all,
C



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