Strangely enough, I've met more women (the this biz) that are more into the big-O themselves than anything romantic or sensual.  Ironically, I'm more romantic myself, and although I do like a good finish, a warm and intimate time together can go so much further.
Best bet is to find someone who shares your same goals, then everyone wins.

Re:Did you cum???????????

My goodness!  I must say, that makes Victoria all the more desirable! (if that could be possible with all her wonderful reviews)
It is much more important to live for spaces in time than for a specific moment in time.  Love making is not a climax.  Love making is the mutual bonding that comes from understand your partner's needs and responding to the non-verbal cues that each twitch and tingle give.  I just love that post Victoria!

I agree with you Victoria.

I especially think that we are more orgasmic at certain times of the month.  Sometimes I fake it and sometimes I don't.  It just depends on how I feel that day.  

I think some guys like the idea of a woman cumming but it just doesn't happen each and every try...no fault of the man and I am not disappointed if I don't cum each time.

Women like you, Victoria, are thrilling and satisfying to be with, because you enjoy the play, the playfulness, the sensuality, and so generous to your partners.

As a slightly ED challenged guy (nerve damage from diabetes), I would enjoy the time with or without an O myself. But somehow, ladies like you, Tina Pink, Jordon Kay, Terri, and others, always manage to gift me the O, too. Sometimes, miraculously two cups.

We like to give pleasure, too, even though we are in this with our eyes wide open and know it two adults enjoying play, not two star-crossed lovers. So that is probably why some ask if the lady O's, because it is such a pleasure to give that final explosion along with the sweet play.

Thank you, all.

Victoria you speak from the heart and it's nice to see a provider who sees the big picture.  Thanks for making my experience something special, and something that I will never forget.

I so agree with you Victoria. Some gentlemen that I have seen when we get to talk, I tell that I like the entire time we spend together, from the time they come into my home till the time they leave. For me it is not one single action or single moment I will remember and treasure, it is the entire time spent together. No matter what we do, say or feel.

I have never said to myself..."I remember that big 'O' I had the other day" (well, sometimes maybe...lol)...I say to myself, "I remember that time I spent with that gentleman. That was a GREAT time". Because it was the entire moment I remembered, not the big O.

So like Victoria said, if we don't get the big O, it doesn't mean we didn't enjoy ourselves. I think you guys also knows when we had a good time, when you see the big grin on our faces afterwards

xoxo
Swedish Anna

Loved your view on this!  And it also holds true for some gentlemen ... with the right partner, orgasms can start with the first "hello".  Unfortunately most guys have always associated having an orgasm with ejaculation. They forget that the most important sex organ is the one between their ears, not their thighs.