I need advice on breaking the ice...

I'm brand new to the hobby and have no experience with a provider.
Discretion is really important to me, as I'm sure it is to many. However without provider references how can I best find a quality provider that is well reviewed and safe (ie not LE)?
I know I can be easily verified through my work, but again want to make sure discretion is provided.

Any advice on great quality local provider that could provide a great GFE and establish a connection for this newbie?

Thanks for the help...