If you try to pound everyone into your mold, you're probably missing something important in life.
You read my review. Fine. It's long, it's excessively detailed and, yes, it does read like a dime store novel. If you think that it suggests something like starry eyed ignorance over the gal, you've obviously not read my other reviews as well, LOL. My post of Victoria is not my longest.
You seem to pigeon hole folks to concur with your conceptions. Why did I write such a long, romantic story? - I like to write. No Freudian interpretation required. Of my nine posts, I've had PMs from guys, regarding four of them, thanking me for expressing their experience beyond their skills in telling. I did have one other person tell me I write too much, and I agreed with him readily.
Maybe you should ask why you feel the need to explain what others think, and why.
Yes - I enjoy the experience as much, if not sometimes more than the sex. Just because I watch and enjoy a theatrical play, it doesn't mean I THINK IT"S REAL. That makes you and I different. Not better. Not worse. Different. What I pay for, and how much, is for my satisfaction, not yours. Our needs/wants are obviously based on differing models.
I see that. Can you? I am no threat to your standards of good or bad, so there is no need to belittle, attack or define me. The truth is that YOU are the one making things "more than it is". It's a common problem for people who want to impose themselves on others, and who have the gift to write well. Some think that being the most articulate means being the most correct.
You have a lot of opinions about me, what I think, why I think it, and how that's wrong. The real difference between us is that I consider our opinions and make my judgement, you consider your opinions as the judgement. Your very skilled with posting, and manipulating, but I find your commentaries dull and narrow.
Now - we've successfully insulted each other. You may continue going about judging others as you please. As I'd said, I was asked to make a comment regarding MY assessment of VVH: I found her worthwhile for my purpose. You may not. Other posters may have their opinions even different than ours.
See?
Different.