When emailing a provider you have not met, it it OK to ask them questions like do they enjoy or offer DFK, etc.

Such questions will cause a lot of them to not reply to your initial inquiry!  AFTER you've been verified, if you're polite, you'll probably get some pretty good responses.

but it seems like kind of a waste to go through all of the set up procedures if she is not what you are looking for.

Another thought, the usual responses are to look at the TER review, but you really cant count on what you see.

you'll probably get an honest response. But really, most GFE's will be girlfriend material. I think what you really want to ask is something more personal, right? Be honest.  

Most GFE's will give you just about anything, with the exception of possibly rimming and/or Greek, especially the seaonsed providers. Need I say more? Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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That's what "reviews" are for.  This is a review site so common sense would be to read the full reviews just as a guideline.  Chemistry has a lot to do with I how I interect with my friends and I'm not a programmed robot set to do the same exact thing each time.  Just as you are probably not the exact same with each lady you encounter.  If you want the lady to "keep it real"  it's definitely a ymmv in many respects.  Since it was recently a topic of discussion, there's no way I'm going to feel an attraction to a guy with poor hygiene, bad attitude or lack of manners but  When the chemistry is right, it's WOW!  It's best to meet a new lady without having high expectations and you're very likely to have a good time and be pleasantly surprised.

There are several national review boards to choose from when doing your research.  Most girls have links to their reviews on their site.  Does that mean that they have coerced the reviews to be slanted in their behalf?  Perhaps with some, but not with all.

It is never appropriate to ask a provider what she offers because all she is offering is her TIME.  Anything that may or may not happen, is purely coincidental......   Research research research.....  aside from the reviews, look at her posts.  Does her intellect match yours?  Does she post at all?  

Inevitably you will take one for the team - but that is a risk that every person will take REGARDLESS of what is being purchased.  

If you are too cynical about what you are finding here, then perhaps this hobby is not for you.

Jazz

Now that I have read this entire thread (yes all I do tend to post before reading everything   ) I am failing to find the snitty answers that you said were present.  I think that you have received a very fair and honest feedback from several providers...

Have a great day and good luck with your search!
*kisses*
Jazz

I mentioned the snitty answers only in the hope of eliminating them which it did.  All of the answers were nice as well as helpful.

When i am approached by someone i have never seen before and the first thing they start asking me about is my services, an immediate red flag goes up. When i meet someone in person and the first thing they ask me if i do any illicit substances or have any on my person, another red flag goes up. They may be harmless but none the less my safety is imperative. I don't like being approached with~ "I want to do (fill in the blank) when i see you" in the initial e-mail. it alarms me.
 Like Mya and many of the other providers have said reviews say what we are about. I offer time in a casual, laid back atmosphere with a genuine human being. What happens aside from that happens between consenting adults.