I've never done MFM before at all, but a friend and I would like to experience it ... what is the usual pricing for the hour in that situation?  Double the one-hour? Or is there a little discount for two?

We're both clean, polite, professional, married guys for whom this would be a bucket list item for a lifetime. Providers say they don't want to negotiate, but this is different, at least for me.

Any thoughts or experience?

It depends on the provider . I know when I play with my partner a female it’s never double and most of the time we find women who don’t charge more. If they do it certainly isn’t double. I’ve found some providers negotiate on longer term arrangements.

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I very much appreciated the responses that were posted -- and wonder if anyone else has a different experience or suggestion?

I guess I'm trying to play "by the book" when the provider says "non negotiable" -- I want to honor her wishes, it is only gentlemanly -- and the same with a provider warning "nothing explicit" in the messages.  So just coming out and asking her seems to go the wrong way -- but maybe that's the only way?

You are a bit behind the 8ball because not a lot of providers have their rate for this on their ads or sites. I suspect a lot of them won’t do it.  

 
That said, “more than one guy” is a searchable detail in the reviews here. Granted, the profile info is very often wrong but it’s a place to start.  

 
I would not assume that a provider having a rate on her ad for “couples” means that she would see two guys for the same rate, or even at all.  

 
Some women will mention in their ad they do bachelor parties.  If you’re going to ask someone who doesn’t explicitly advertise MFM, that might be the type to ask.  

 
I see what you’re saying about not being explicit before you meet her but you don’t really have to be. When you contact for a regular appointment you probably don’t say hi my name is Ricki and I’d love to meet you and have you blow me then move into mish. You say I’d like to meet you; and you give some dates and times you’re available. She knows what meet means

 
Same same. You should be able to find a polite way to ask would you meet my buddy and I; or my friend and I would like to meet you…  You don’t have to mention anything about Eiffel Tower. Just do your best to be respectful and not explicit.  

 
You might still be in an uphill battle if she doesn’t specifically advertise for this. Personally I’ve never gone looking for this type of appointment, but it sometimes comes up in conversation and I would say the majority of smart reputable ladies are very wary of meeting with two strange men.  

 
Honestly if you don’t find a provider with a rate for it on her ad, your best bet is to meet someone one on one first. If you feel like it went well and you think she’s comfortable with you then ask about the threesome you want to do. Your friend should be prepared to go through her full screening process just like any other client. And maybe even meet her one on one as well, if she wants.  

 
Like I said I’ve never inquired about this service but there’s my thoughts on it. Good luck!

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Thank you very much for your clear explanations and thoughts. Your experience helps -- and your suggestions make total sense.

You caused me to realize: Yeah, it's a lady with two strange men coming to visit ... that's not smart on its face, the lady would absolutely need to be careful.

I'll follow your advice.

It occurs to me -- I wonder if the providers ever have clients who say, "I sure would enjoy a 3-way," and the provider knows another client who has said the same thing -- and connects the two in a session.  She'd be quite sure about who they are in such a scenario.

Maybe we could develop a service and call it Air He-N-Me. Or Air Him-N-Him.

-Ricki

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BRILLIANT!

I’ll do it for 5. I’m hot!! I’m mature, but hot!  Message me for pics.

My husband and I provide that. If you do not care that your friend is not involved. We offer mfm and mmf. We are experienved at it, so you ate sure to have a great time.  

Bentley Marie and Dylan
 Bentleymariearizona.com

Im male and if you're willing to add one or two more ladies, id love to join in.

Sorry for delayed response. Let me know what you're envisioning. Maybe there are possibilities.

Dear Bentley Marie,

Forgive my delay, I have been off the air for awhile due to pressing family crises. Those are over, for now.

You and I have communicated before by email, and you very kindly explained how it works with you and hubby -- really quite perfect.  

I'll have to check the email trail, but there was something that stood in the way of our going forward at that time.  Maybe the impediment is gone now

I wanted to acknowledge your friendly response here -- and please know I've thought of you two often since we last communicated!

-Ricki

I've wanted to try the mfm thing too.  Maybe we can do a 3 on 2 or a 3 on 3.

Any thoughts?

Hey Caparttime....the OP is a time waster.....always has an excuse why he can't do it. I had 2 situations that could have worked, and all of a sudden the excuses started......don't waste your time with him.

Hi there, my name is Leanna Acker!
My rate for two men to play with me is 1500/hr.  
Thank you for being courteous and inquiring—your care and respect is appreciated. I can't wait to meet you two xoxox
Leanna

As the OP, I take exception to this comment.  

The last email I received from you said, in full: "Here's my email ....stay in touch.I have two who will do it....they prefer I be involved."

I responded to that while traveling. When I got back into town and reached out, you didn't respond.  

So there weren't "2 situations." I emailed to request additional info on the "two," and it was crickets.  

No hard feelings if it didn't seem like a good match -- but I'd appreciate that the misrepresentations be retracted here.

Thank you.

Sorry for delay. I've been laid up with a crippling back spasm and didn't get notifications on my email from TER for some reason.

I've found an escort who can host MFM in scottsdale.  If you get this soon enough, tonight is a possibility with her. Kindly message me direct.

I have to verify each gentleman  
Make sure that I'm going to be safe  

Hugs Hazel Hayes

Hi, Leanna, everything about you seems awesome!  I appreciate your courtesy and friendliness, too!

Makes total sense, Hazel !  Thank you for letting us know you're there!

Threesomes/moresomes are a blast and MFM is def a fav!🤩 What can I say, I'm a glutton for pleasure🤭
The rate for my time and screening requirements for each gent don't change, tho....  

xo
EC

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Thank you so much. I do not read these too often,  so please forgive  my delayed response  as well. I don't  remember  either. I imagine ut was  my travel schedule or if you were not willing to screen to my requirements. Perhaps  we s g ould talk again.

As I said in an earlier post, I offer this with my partner  Dylan, but sometimes  consider 2 clients. Both must be verified  and each guy just pays my regular rate, as you are both getting  the experience.  Pretty simple.