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Personally, I don't like that idea.  First of all, I don't like to kiss and tell.  Also, I do not tell my clients what another guy does or doesn't do.   I feel to do so would be tacky and would only make the guy feel at best competitive and at worst, inadequate.  I want all my gentleman friends to feel as special as they can be while with me.  If it becomes a competition, it loses the natural erotic spontaniety.  Different people click with one another in different ways, that is the beauty of being human.  The least fav thing a guy can ask me is how many times I "felt good" because then I feel like it's a game.  I think it's better to just let nature take it's course, no pressure and both parties will enjoy.  The last thing I want a guy to feel when he comes to see me is that he has to "one up" someone else.  Heck, there's enough competition and games elsewhere in this world, do we have to bring it into this aspect as well?

I just wanted to expand on a recent posting of Tina Pink when she paid a compliment to a gentleman who saw her.

Now, we all know that us guys tend to be a little competitive, especially when it comes to women.  What if more ladies posted about great experiences they had with a guy?  Like Tina's post, they could say (insert handle here) sure did a great job on this, or that, or whatever it was that really impressed her.  I think this might lead to the next guy asking what so-and-so did so well, and then he will want to try and one-up him.  If this happened, the ladies would surely have more guys thinking of their needs more and less of just how he can take care of his own needs.  And, guys, if we are trying more to impress the ladies, they will be happier which will lead to ourselves getting more out of the experience.

Make sense?  What do you all think?

loverboy571954 reads

hey sundevil i know one lady who says you are the best.... she is in town this week too.

This could be a stellar idea. BUT what if a lady sees a gent and doesn't post something? Would that make him feel insecure? I post very little as I have a million things going on in my world and I'd hate to post about Joe Bob but then not post about Slick Willy and Slick Willy is sitting around wondering if he did something wrong.

Does this make any sense? While I think it could be beneficial for the gents who do get the thumbs up posts, it could cause others who don't receive those posts to feel left out.

As ladies, we love to get the thumbs-up posts, but we also understand that deep down, we're service providers and we don't tend to take it personally if we don't get them from every client, or every other client, etc. I just fear that some feelings could get hurt if the ladies started posting about the men regularly.

However, some of you guys really do blow our minds. I have left a number of times thinking, "DAMN! THAT was good!" and thought about posting it but didn't want to infringe on anyone's privacy. Afterall, privacy is 90% of what you pay for, right?

Megan

PS For the record, I think Tina's post was lovely and have no problem, if the guy  has no problem, with thumbs-up posts whatsoever!

and was told not to do it.  When I've made an awesome connection and have an excellent session with him, I like to thank him for being such a great asset to my life.

The good guys are the ones that keep us ladies happy and motivated to keep providing the service level that is expected and appreciated by the hobbiest.

MsManae

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Who was the guy Tina said good things about?

Personally, I don't like that idea.  First of all, I don't like to kiss and tell.  Also, I do not tell my clients what another guy does or doesn't do.   I feel to do so would be tacky and would only make the guy feel at best competitive and at worst, inadequate.  I want all my gentleman friends to feel as special as they can be while with me.  If it becomes a competition, it loses the natural erotic spontaniety.  Different people click with one another in different ways, that is the beauty of being human.  The least fav thing a guy can ask me is how many times I "felt good" because then I feel like it's a game.  I think it's better to just let nature take it's course, no pressure and both parties will enjoy.  The last thing I want a guy to feel when he comes to see me is that he has to "one up" someone else.  Heck, there's enough competition and games elsewhere in this world, do we have to bring it into this aspect as well?

Rating a particular client probably isn't a good ideal, but overall impressions written and related by the providers would actually benefit the clients.  Believe me if a provider makes some specific positive reference to something the client did or didn't do for her during a session, I for one as potential client would make note and use of it.  We obviously already have the guy’s version in the reviews section, but the provider’s version might be something altogether different.  I can’t speak for all on our side of the mattress but what makes a session special for me is the genuine passion and pleasure I can bring to my partner.  With the insights this type of review might provide it could make the difference between a "so so" session and a standout pull out the stops I gotta have more ASAP booking.  Win/Win with a grin for both the parties.

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