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Az hacker you are right!!Everytime i see a post up you always mention more then just one ladies name and always give alot of great ladies to see.I myself miss you and think you are a great guy and give you props for mentioning other ladies.

providerXXX3012 reads

Have you ever noticed that you'll see a post by someone where he mentions his one (or two ATF's) by name...then a few days or a week later, he's raving about another lady?

Sure, we all know you guys love variety--that's understandable. In fact, all ladies get requests to provide recommendations for their clients when they see new ladies. That's part of this business and no one has a problem with it, as long as it's kept private and discreet.

But, it's publicly embarrassing for a lady, if she is known to be a guy's ATF (because he posted it) that he went on to go see someone new.

I know some ladies on this board to whom this has happened, and the guy just basically burned his bridges with her by embarrasing her in this way.

Personally, if I were a hobbyist and were asked for recommendations, I'd give a range of 3-4 (or more) ladies. I'd never say "A" is the absolute best or she was my ATF unless you have no plans of ever seeing someone else.  (Because if you do so and post about it, "A" is not going to be thrilled, and she may not even wish to see you again.)

Be smart--be diplomatic.

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azhacker3272 reads

Hmmmm....

Actually I set my ATF's up for a double with another guy once (lucky SOB). Both of them have openly talked to me about other gals I might like to try. I dont think either is embarrassed about me seeing anyone else.

In fact based on my conversations with them (as well as other providers) the opposite is true. They are much more worried about guys who create a different reality (in their minds) about the whole thing. I realize that both of these gals do this for a living and that I'm a "customer". They dont see me because Im witty or handsome or a stud...they see me because I pay them to.

At the same time they show me little bits and pieces of who they are and make it much much more then a "transaction". I consider my ATF's to be friends of a special kind...and in many ways feel its about as open and honest as any friendships I have.

BTW if you go back thru and do a search you'll see I always recommend more then 1 gal...and not always my ATF.

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foxy kay2938 reads

Az hacker you are right!!Everytime i see a post up you always mention more then just one ladies name and always give alot of great ladies to see.I myself miss you and think you are a great guy and give you props for mentioning other ladies.

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azhacker3204 reads

Hey sweetie, you looked great btw (at least the little bit I could see:))...{Jordan Kay and MJ are "roomies"...so my "original" ATF and my "newest" ATF are in same place}...BTW was 10 yrs of "hobbying" before Jordan Kay became 1st ATF for me...both a sign of her being a very special person and the reality that it takes awhile to get by the "alphabet soup" and see the person behind the service....

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foxy kay2481 reads



-- Modified on 4/3/2005 6:41:19 PM

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azhacker4072 reads

Provider xxx...

One other reason I'll post something like this is as follows....

I cant even imagine how tough it must be to always have to be "on" & to be "slammed" despite your best efforts. Anyone of us who's built friendships with one or more of the gals knows those harsh comments can get taken to heart. It never hurts to have someone (especially if you know they really feel that way) tell you your special...or better yet take a moment and tell everyone else.

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bobloveswomen3679 reads

Although I have an all time favorite..it doesn't mean we  are monogomous.  She nor I.  So I am not cheating on her if I see another lady (nor is she cheating on me if she sees another guy>...LOL)  so although I love all ladies I do have a favorite..who I see when our schedules work together  ...and I can  travel to her or her to I....so Roxanne... you are my atf...and I hope no other ladies I;ve seen are jealous..(lol)

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