with being a 7? As I read reviews , I am sometimes amazed at the difference in the numbers for the same lady. I do understand that people have different Pix in there mind of what is nice and what is model material . I hear from hobbyiests from other parts of the country that Phx. guys #'s are not real, that we are not honest in our assessment of a ladies looks.That we have set the bar too high and we can not reverse it without causing ourselves some backlash from the women. That being said, I would love to hear why a 7(attractive) is not a great number? i often think that TERs' rating system for looks is a bit off. I think 9 and 10 could become 10 , Making 8 -attractive and 9 -hot . I think the difference between model material and one in a life time is very little. I mean really, what is one in a lifetime in looks? Is that someone who you think is so gorgeous that there is no one else you will ever see that could be that good looking? With apologies to all the women in the valley, I believe the only one in a lifetime is a women that you are head over heels in love with . I would like to get real, I think a 7 is a great number and believe it is the benchmark to use. I have never given a 10 in looks , have given a few 9's and then most are 8's and 7's. I hope some of you ladies will weigh in on this matter, although, It might be difficult to share as when you have been given a 7 and you see a lady who you think is a 6 get an 8, you are not a happy camper. The whole comparison thing . And when you feel like your  numbers drive your business, the 7 hurts . Well?

My friend, It's Friday morning and you obviously have way too much time on your hands today!  Do yourself a favor and call one of your ATFs and schedule a session NOW!  You need some pooning, and you obviously already kmow the answer to your rhetorical question.

I find it easier to assess performance than attractivness, I find I either develop an appreciation for the providers demeanor or we just don't click and although unfair I fear this connection adds into my attractivness scale. I guess I am unable, when I have interacted with the provider, to rate strictly on appearance. I find that a woman who might initially appear to be a 6 but who has a great personallity and whos company I enjoy a great deal will get a higher attractiveness rating than a beautiful woman who's company I did not enjoy as much. I assume this is just human nature. In all fairness ladies I expect you find this true with some of the hobbyests you have encountered along the way as well.

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I don't follow TER rating system.  10 is not "one in a life time".  10 is just that, 10.  Anyone can give out as many 10s as he wants.  But a 10 doesn't exist in this hobby.  10s are way overused by the hobbyists here.
To me, a 10 is someone who fits your own description of a perfect woman.  A 10 to me is a woman who is tall (at least 5'8), athletic (120-135 lbs), busty, GORGEOUS face and must be in her 20s.
I've seen a few providers who were highly rated.  However, I have been disappointed most of the time.


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Nothings wrong with a 7.....but some get higher scores cause they have established that like over 5years ago and I really think the gent doesn't want to stir the pot....being real and honest they have changed and sometimes not for the better. I really don't think there are many 10's they may look like 10's when the pic's are doctored up but really does bit!

Also I think maybe the gent forgets what they looked like when they walk in the door and only remember the looks after a hot role in the hay when the lipstick and makeup has worn off, really being honest here again we (none of us) look the same!!!!!!!

It really is who you are and whats been established in most cases!

But I do think that some of these ladies need to up date the age category....many have been 36-40 for over 5 years....


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and nothing is wrong with a 7....the arrogance of some that think they only have to see a 9 or a 10 is pure shallow and narrow minded....I've personally have seen some of these women and plastic surgery
is not the answer they look fake!

Not many of us are perfect but the whole package of being true to yourself, personality, wit, charm, honesty is the real beauty and to those that look for that in a lady hats off to you!

I didn't think that lovely lady on the link you sent was a 10, Jeffrey. Every guy looks at a women diffrently. They see diffrent things. And a 10 is almost impossable to find, even a 9. So 7 & 8's are pretty darn good.

Now I'm gonna go back to my cave.

You are right on.  A 10 is certainly almost impossible to find, especially in this hobby.

Personally trying to come up with a number or rating for a provider just based on "looks" or "performance" doesn't quite work for me.  To me they are seperate issues that certainly combine to make the whole package.  I've been with very beutiful women who had no personality or warmth.  I've been with women who were greatly talented but something just didn't quite jell to give a total experience.  Sometimes it's just the mood you happen to be in.  So when I read the reviews and "ratings" it's more what is said in the review that gives me a sense of what to expect.

There are as many "10's" on TER as there are shades of grey.  All I do is subtract 2-3 on looks and add 5-10 on age!

business at all! I am all about performance and having a great time!

I also know that I am not an ageless beauty, so I don't let the scores bother me.

I keep my guys coming back with so, I must be doing something right!

I an opened minded and up for about anything! Love walking on the widside! yeeehhhh hawwww!

Kelly

Best little dirty talker in the west!







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love ya
Ter

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Can I get between these two sets of lips?

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The "looks" number means something only to the person writing the review, and to each his own. My "10" might be another guy's "7." And your "9" might be my "8" because you lust after a thinner lady and I go nuts for a more voluptuous look.

My advice, guys: take the "looks" rating with a grain of salt. And ladies: a looks rating is just one guy's opinion, weighted by what he, alone, likes.

A final word: I don't live in the Phoenix area, but visit now and then, and always try to see a provider or two. I have enjoyed time with Jordan Kay, Tina Pink, Terri Kares, Victoria, and can't wait to visit world's best kisser Sarah and amazing Mya...I probably wouldn't give them all the same "looks" number, but I am crazy about spending time with them because they are all terrific!!!

I too find the ratings inflated. To me once in a life time, is well, once in a life time, and model material is almost as rare. Yet I've seen some reviewers, reviews with all nines and tens for looks. To each his own.

9 may be another ones 7 or 8. A lot of the appearance rating is how the guy connected with the lady he’s reviewing and if he had a great time with her looks don’t mean anything.

I agree with Jeffery if there is a 10 out there it’s Nikki Avalon.

I’ve put a few 10s out there and I stand by them based on my experience with the lady.

Okay now Chilopsis did you get your fix today?

is the sky blue?

With all the ads available, we probably gravitate to those ladies that look like they'd match our fantasy 'genie'.  I looked back and have given four 10's and I think they all relate to going beyond my expectations, even with pictures before hand.  ANYhow, in the end it is not the 10 rating in appearance but the experience which is a mix of the two number ratings.  (In that 'looking back' I seem to have chosen VERY wisely !!).  Thank you all!

That unattainable summit, the elusive pot o gold... a "ten". I might be wrong but I don't think I've ever rated a Lady a 10, too lazy to try and read my old reviews -lol- Here's my take: A "7" would be a great standard that many of us would love to have with us in everyday life. The eye of the beholder is a vast array of standards. For me, the eye of the beholder is when I'm the "holder" as she looks down at me as a wetness escapes her throbbing pussy! Beauty is shared in passion not just in an air-brushed professional photo.
Now performance is a bit more measurable if we all had the same measuring tape! For me lots of sensual kissing and real passion not just the act itself. A 5'4" 102lbs 20 yr something "hottie" who will not kiss, only CBJ, no DATY, one shot and she's gone like a rocket? Looks would be high but performance would require a "never again" rating.
I have also found that it is best to wait a day or two to write your review, you know, to let the buzz wear off a bit. I may believe that many poor review are never written because the guys don't want to hurt a Lady's feelings.
Just my twelve cents worth...

That way when the girl meets the guy she knows if she needs to get drunk and if so how drunk.

Seriously in reality the guys are usually twos or threes and the best of the girls are six's.  But not always.

Where is the Love?

when you like someone, they are more attractive to you..

someone's look are only a portion of what makes them attractive

I've known many ladies who are pretty, even gorgeous, but weren't very attractive.  I've known many ladies who were super attractive without being particularly pretty.  The two concepts are entirely different, and I'd much, much rather be with an attractive lady than someone who is merely pretty.

For what its worth, the looks rating is meaningless to me and the performance rating almost as much so. Since we guys have such differing tastes or preferences in women, my 10 can be someone else's 6 or visa versa. The lady's pics will tell me if I think she is hot and someone I want to meet. I have always been interested why a guy would give a lady a very low looks rating, especially when he had the opportunity to see her pics before scheduling. I guess there might be circumstances where no pics were offered in her ad to begin with, or; the photos were out of date, or; a bait and switch kinda thing, or; the lady was not fully prepared to greet her client, etc.

On the performance side of things, I find the narratives to offer the information I am most interested in, namely, what things a lady is comfortable with and how well she offers them.

To answer your question more directly, I would consider a 7 looks rating as well above average and generally a very good score. Unfortunately, I know a number of ladies will disagree with me on that one and I have the bruises and lumps from some of my reports to prove it. :>)

Something else that might be considered by all:

If a lady is going to represent herself in highly polished photographs dressed to the nines with hair perfectly manicured and make-up applied by a professional but show up for her appointments dressed like a slob with hair unkempt and minimal make-up applied, then don't be surprised if your looks score is lower than you think it should be. Just a thought.....

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I like your formula, but with the Phoenix crowd the 10 scale is bit more off the top then normal.

Some like skinny, some like curvy, some like MILF, some like young, some like PSE, some like a passionate make out session and the "whole package"...
one man's ceiling is another man's floor.

I also agree with Kelly. They keep coming back, so some of us must be doing something right!

Kisses,
C

That is one reason why I have pictures of myself that do not look like Cosmopolitan pictures. I have pics of me in nature, others in different settings, but none are in perfect makeup and photoshopped to the grave. I look totally different with modeling makeup and clothes on, but I don't want my clients/friends to think I look like that always, although I try to make myself look great each time. I am kind of a perfectionist with my house being clean and no dishes in the sink. So . . . I guess we all have our idiosynchrocies.

Hugs & smooches,
Ciara