Phoenix

ATF's and Christmasregular_smile
charlottenoble 7 Reviews 1401 reads
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We all have our families, friends to celebrate Christmas.  But I want to let you ATF's know how much mental attention you get, even as we do the traditional.  You are such joy in our lives, even though it's impossible to be with you. Many of you have families and loved ones too.  To all of you, together or specifically alone, you too are loved.  If the world was different, many of us guys would choose to be with you, treasure you with gifts and love. It may not be sufficient to supplicate your aloneness, but be aware that through all our celebrations we are thinking of you, sending our psychic love thougts your way, wishing we could be with you.  If you get a surprising warmth, know it is one of us. Merry Christmas in absentia.

I’ll probably get slammed BUT…

While I think this comment is a quite noble sentiment and is well intended - there was an aspect that hit me wrong: "It may not be sufficient to supplicate your aloneness, but be aware that through all our celebrations we are thinking of you..."

It seems a little like providers are assumed to be lonely, just sitting around waiting for the hobbyist to call, and “oh-boy!” would they love to be in place of the wife or significant other.

Ehhhh… probably not so much.

I don’t know… I don’t mean to be a negative - just remember, “judge not; lest ye be judged”… and don’t “assume”… it only makes an “ass” of “you” and “me”. And maybe I’m doing both??

Anyhow, I think the meaning was genuine and thoughtful – just wanted any providers who may have been a bit put off by the under-lying sub-text to know, we might really care out here, but may not always express it in the most optimal fashion.

That said - Wishing everyone a Happy Holiday Season and Happy 2008.

For those providers and those hobbyists who are alone on Christmas day and wish they could be with someone else to celebrate the holiday ...

For those providers and those hobbyists who are with their families are friends on Christmas and steal a few moments to think about those who are alone on that day ...

And for those providers and hobbyists who are going out to a film and eating Chinese because they are Hindu, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, or Wiccan....

Happy New Year and Happy Holidays!
May Peace and Love Fill Your Heart and Your Life

Although the comment was meant to be noble, it is ignorant to think that we are all alone and pining away for clients during the holidays. No offense guys. But we do wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas.

Hugs,
Ciara

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