I am new to this board so forgive me if I dont get some of the terms right.
I see that most of the posters in here consider themselves "hobbist". Most of them seem like normal people who have an expensive hobby and enjoy themselves and their providers.

Having said that I can say that I am not a hobbist and have another point of view. I am a professional business man, mature, married, with many good qualities. I look for a provider who provides a highly discreet relationship. I do not look for quantity but look for quality. I look for that special provider that I can spend time with having intelligent conversation, in intimate, sensual, safe surroundings in which I can get away from the daily demands of business, clients, schedules, stress. An atmosphere where I am the center of attention, where for a period of time I can escape.

The problem I encounter is the "inspection process" I have not seen a provider in 20 years and not in AZ, so that leaves me with out a reference. I am very reluctant to give out personal information to someone  I really dont know. I know that you girls have to be safe, I can respect that, in fact I believe that you being careful also protects your clients. BUT I also have to be carefull and I dont think that I need to explain the reasons.

So that is my story and Im sticking to it Maybe there is an alternative. Maybe I could meet you for a cup of coffee and that would be a way to get to know me and for me to get to know you and get a level of comfort....hell bring a friend if you want to feel xtra safe.

Respectfully
NEUDUDE