Hi ladies, we know if a guy is married he usually wants you to be discreet if meeting in a public place. (Restaurant,lounge or whatever)   I have been divorced for 30 years and could care less about what anyone thinks I'm doing.

So, my question is.........if a gentleman wants to meet for cocktails first and wants you to dress sexy and play up to him (within reason) is that something you are O.K. with or not???

Having ask that I do realize why some may be O.K. and others don't want any attention drawn towards them.  

Thank you for any input given, I hope y'all had a Merry Christmas and will have a safe & happy New Years eve.

Regards,
Bordello

Hmmm,
I put this same post on the general discussion board being as we don't have a lot of traffic here. I was surprised that I gave the wrong impression in the way I worded it.  I did not mean for the lady to act "slutty" only flirt & be provocative with me. I did mean dress sexy but she can determine what she is comfortable with.

Believe me, I have no desire to disrespect any of the ladies here.



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This is a given for me. Of course!! It is fun knowing 'something' the other people around me don't. I get a reason to dress up and flirt which is great foreplay to say the least

I did this 2 weeks ago and we later went back to my place, shared 2 bottles of Champagne and had fun for several hours...meeeeooow

Puss och Kram,
Swedish Anna

...always sexxy!  You looked sexxy when I ran into you in the grocery store recently!

great post.....I love dressing sexy but always classy though....It's always such a nice feeling to have someone come up to you and say you look great...airports, grocery store or just getting gas.



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Dear Miss Anna,
Thank you for the reply and of course the picture of you that always drives me nuts. LOL

I do appreciate your input and it seems you have an understanding of human nature, I like that.

I won't mention names but I have talked about you awhile ago with another provider that I've seen a few times, she spoke highly of you.

My Best,
Bordello69

Anna, you epitomise sexy.  You look sexy every time I've seen you.
Best holiday wishes.

Hi Terri,
Nice picture but it looks cold there. LOL
Thank you for recognizing that my post was meant in a positive way.  I tried to get my question out there without putting out a lot of reasons.

The board is so quiet that only a few regular posters pop up now and then.  I have been reading but not posting till now.

I do hope to meet you next year. Be safe on New Years eve.
Regards,
Bordello

I love to look sexy when I'm on a date. Now, I don't want to walk in looking like a dime-store hooker and I know that's not what you meant. It also depends where we're going.

Cowboy bar:  Tight jeans with a corsette-style top, cowboy boots with spurs and a cowboy hat. I'll gently glide my hand down toward your ass to stroke it while we two-step. And, of course, I'll line dance just for you, and I'm a good dancer. I want everyone to watch me while I only look at you.

Fancy restaurant: Evening dress that is classy but shows every curve, and heels that are classy -- no fuck-me pumps. Grabbing someone's hand calmly and secretly running my fingernails underneath his palm is very seductive without being too obvious. You know what other men are thinking but it's our little secret and it drives them nuts to know what's going on between the two of us. Women generally just think I'm horny or we're in love. But you and I know it's lust at first sight. I love to take my shoes off under the table and massage his legs and work my way up to his private parts. Yummy! By this time, he's usually ready for the check. If we're sitting next to each other in a booth, I'll slide his hand under my dress, feeling my warmth between my legs. I love to tease beforehand. It makes for a much more exciting finish when alone. And, of course, there's dessert. I love to feed someone a little morsel of what's to come. Or, if no dessert, I like to tell the waiter that "he's my dessert" and watch him walk off and blush.

At a Bar:  I look classy yet relaxed, showing some cleavage but more like a business woman ready for some fun. I'll take my place next to you, being totally confident in who I am and what I want. I'll immediately give you a compliment so that everyone else can hear me (but in a coy yet confident style). I'll ask what you're drinking and if you like it, then I'll order the same, possibly even buy you a drink. I want everyone to know I'm hitting on you. I'll lick my lips every once in a while when someone is looking at us and bat my long eyelashes at you. I'll move in a little closer, using slow seductive movements and a cheshire cat grin on my face. I have a very playful smile. I'll leave the rest to your imagination.

Hugs,
Ciara


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Damn Ciara,
I have to say, that answer was really hot, not what I was expecting but more then welcome. If you're not a writer maybe you should be. LOL    I do thank you for telling me how attentive you can be and that is the kind of info I was hoping to get.

I'm really easy going and don't ask for much except if a lady decides to spend an hour or whatever with me I only wish to feel special for that time, I will do my best to make her feel the same way.

Hope to meet up next year,
Bordello

I feel very good about making my friends happy and special. I put extra time in doing so and -- hopefully -- in return I embrace pleasure from their smiles.

I am a writer and an editor. These are just a few of many genres I am involved with when not participating in the hobby of pleasing someone.

Hugs,
Ciara



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Dinner Ciara? Lady, that was some of the most provocative and erotic writing I have seen on the board. And having the pleasure of seeing you before......let's just say we need to have dinner together. Happy New Years M'Lady.

Hi Terri,
You look classy in the picture and all the time.  Your smile looks like  you are  with great  company.  You  always look great in my eyes.  Keep smiling it is good  for our health.  Stay warm!

Do I get credit for kind of guessing you might do some kind of writing??? Just kidding.


Thank you so much.

Hugs back at ya,
Bordello

Re: Thank you. Shall I place Sushi all over my body or just a steak? (eom)

Hell sweet thang...it's all good. But I can see where having dinner with you would greatly heighten the anticipation of the wonderous dessert to follow. Given that the mind is the largest sex organ in the body your experitse at the art of seduction can only make such an evening imminently memorable.