Phoenix
Really depends on the type of gentleman being targetted and how he is feeling. A fellow hobbyist in Dallas years ago had the handle "32 Flavors". There was not a particular type (well, he was a breast man), but we had the pleasure of being able to meet ladies in different settings prior to an appointment. I go back to USENET days and prior to web for this business. Anyone remember "The Fox Files"? One of the first picture sites. The transition to this medium for this type of service is akin to going to a plastic surgeon. You really want references from people you trust and to have a pre-meeting before the "surgery" (not sure I want to speak my mind about the integrity of reviews or the motives behind them or the value of socials - I've seen them help and hurt ladies).
Chemistry is binary and animal - and not able to be determined from an ad. Like going to a name store or city with a preconceived notion... until you are "there" you don't know if you will return. I have had "regulars" for a while, but the notorius "JUST JACK" would tell you "They're good until they're not."
Yea, cute pics help, but I dislike when the pics are photo shopped, blury, staged, And probably not what I am going to get. Experience tells me I'd take a chance on someone real, than someone fake. But cute . So keep it real words wise and no glamour shots. Word does get out if you are portraying something you are not. If your reviews have a tendancy to state you are late, way different than pics, or you are marketing yourself way too much, it can be a turn off. You gotta be really "service special" if you faked up your ads too much and guys keep coming back. But chemistry is a strange thing....
That said, if you want "one visit", be someone other than your ad or how you portray yourself on the boards. Or be selfish, and not think about the value of your clients and potential clients. Or play games. Something about flies and sugar...
What draws me in the first time... a simple message. A real untouched photograph. Ads or posts created by the individual themselves. Rules or wishes on a website need to be "kind" and not "yo' let me tell you what you can't do and how you better not act or you can talk to the hand".
I am amazed how many times I see negative or condescending posts. Well, I like Bailey's to be honest because she is being real. Someday when I am in that "in your face" mood, I will see her. Yes. I will see her..... 
This business is tough. I have found ladies on all online venues. And we want variety. The fleeting seconds, not sure if that happens for guys in the know..... I spend a lot of time usually looking through a variety of things quietly before I make contact. And if the contact (email, etc) is good, I usually get pulled through. Update your photos. Don't let me know about all the guys (reviews on your site, etc). I want to feel like your one and only... for an hour
There is a great book called "BLINK" which describes how we make those fleeting decisions intuitively. It depends on the type of man, their background, their experiences, their "flavor(s)", their mood...
But who could not be captured by a picture of Holly smiling. Or the Lady that is Victoria. Or the freshness of a Bailey. Or the Rock Starr. Or the "under the radar" approach of a Hailey, or the pheremone drenched Krista (of days gone by - gentleman give me a high five on our old "Krista"). I could go on and on about so many charming individuals. The things that make them who they are will come through for the quality ladies. It is trying to figure out if I have chemistry through a non biological medium. Or you could post nudie pictures showing some breasteses, yea, that would do it! The little head wins again. Darn.
Cheers
j
Thoughts from actual hobbyist on this subject. Considering the average attention span for adults
is only about 7 seconds I would love to know what captures those fleeting seconds, especially in the male brain! *mischievous wink*
Really depends on the type of gentleman being targetted and how he is feeling. A fellow hobbyist in Dallas years ago had the handle "32 Flavors". There was not a particular type (well, he was a breast man), but we had the pleasure of being able to meet ladies in different settings prior to an appointment. I go back to USENET days and prior to web for this business. Anyone remember "The Fox Files"? One of the first picture sites. The transition to this medium for this type of service is akin to going to a plastic surgeon. You really want references from people you trust and to have a pre-meeting before the "surgery" (not sure I want to speak my mind about the integrity of reviews or the motives behind them or the value of socials - I've seen them help and hurt ladies).
Chemistry is binary and animal - and not able to be determined from an ad. Like going to a name store or city with a preconceived notion... until you are "there" you don't know if you will return. I have had "regulars" for a while, but the notorius "JUST JACK" would tell you "They're good until they're not."
Yea, cute pics help, but I dislike when the pics are photo shopped, blury, staged, And probably not what I am going to get. Experience tells me I'd take a chance on someone real, than someone fake. But cute . So keep it real words wise and no glamour shots. Word does get out if you are portraying something you are not. If your reviews have a tendancy to state you are late, way different than pics, or you are marketing yourself way too much, it can be a turn off. You gotta be really "service special" if you faked up your ads too much and guys keep coming back. But chemistry is a strange thing....
That said, if you want "one visit", be someone other than your ad or how you portray yourself on the boards. Or be selfish, and not think about the value of your clients and potential clients. Or play games. Something about flies and sugar...
What draws me in the first time... a simple message. A real untouched photograph. Ads or posts created by the individual themselves. Rules or wishes on a website need to be "kind" and not "yo' let me tell you what you can't do and how you better not act or you can talk to the hand".
I am amazed how many times I see negative or condescending posts. Well, I like Bailey's to be honest because she is being real. Someday when I am in that "in your face" mood, I will see her. Yes. I will see her.....
This business is tough. I have found ladies on all online venues. And we want variety. The fleeting seconds, not sure if that happens for guys in the know..... I spend a lot of time usually looking through a variety of things quietly before I make contact. And if the contact (email, etc) is good, I usually get pulled through. Update your photos. Don't let me know about all the guys (reviews on your site, etc). I want to feel like your one and only... for an hour
There is a great book called "BLINK" which describes how we make those fleeting decisions intuitively. It depends on the type of man, their background, their experiences, their "flavor(s)", their mood...
But who could not be captured by a picture of Holly smiling. Or the Lady that is Victoria. Or the freshness of a Bailey. Or the Rock Starr. Or the "under the radar" approach of a Hailey, or the pheremone drenched Krista (of days gone by - gentleman give me a high five on our old "Krista"). I could go on and on about so many charming individuals. The things that make them who they are will come through for the quality ladies. It is trying to figure out if I have chemistry through a non biological medium. Or you could post nudie pictures showing some breasteses, yea, that would do it! The little head wins again. Darn.
Cheers
j
Chemistry is binary and animal - and not able to be determined from an ad. Like going to a name store or city with a preconceived notion... until you are "there" you don't know if you will return. I have had "regulars" for a while, but the notorius "JUST JACK" would tell you "They're good until they're not."
Yea, cute pics help, but I dislike when the pics are photo shopped, blury, staged, And probably not what I am going to get. Experience tells me I'd take a chance on someone real, than someone fake. But cute
. So keep it real words wise and no glamour shots. Word does get out if you are portraying something you are not. If your reviews have a tendancy to state you are late, way different than pics, or you are marketing yourself way too much, it can be a turn off. You gotta be really "service special" if you faked up your ads too much and guys keep coming back. But chemistry is a strange thing.... That said, if you want "one visit", be someone other than your ad or how you portray yourself on the boards. Or be selfish, and not think about the value of your clients and potential clients. Or play games. Something about flies and sugar...
What draws me in the first time... a simple message. A real untouched photograph. Ads or posts created by the individual themselves. Rules or wishes on a website need to be "kind" and not "yo' let me tell you what you can't do and how you better not act or you can talk to the hand".
I am amazed how many times I see negative or condescending posts. Well, I like Bailey's to be honest because she is being real. Someday when I am in that "in your face" mood, I will see her. Yes. I will see her.....
This business is tough. I have found ladies on all online venues. And we want variety. The fleeting seconds, not sure if that happens for guys in the know..... I spend a lot of time usually looking through a variety of things quietly before I make contact. And if the contact (email, etc) is good, I usually get pulled through. Update your photos. Don't let me know about all the guys (reviews on your site, etc). I want to feel like your one and only... for an hour
There is a great book called "BLINK" which describes how we make those fleeting decisions intuitively. It depends on the type of man, their background, their experiences, their "flavor(s)", their mood...
But who could not be captured by a picture of Holly smiling. Or the Lady that is Victoria. Or the freshness of a Bailey. Or the Rock Starr. Or the "under the radar" approach of a Hailey, or the pheremone drenched Krista (of days gone by - gentleman give me a high five on our old "Krista"). I could go on and on about so many charming individuals. The things that make them who they are will come through for the quality ladies. It is trying to figure out if I have chemistry through a non biological medium. Or you could post nudie pictures showing some breasteses, yea, that would do it! The little head wins again. Darn.
Cheers
j
