does not come up. I am talking about E.D. we have been discussing weight issues and other things that might affect a provider in making a choice on whom to see. My question is if a man had E.D.due to say being a diabetic or prostrate problems or let's just say he is impontent due to age or just lack of use[I believe that this a use it or lose it problem] should he let you know beforehand? We providers are not miracle workers and as hard as we try sometimes you just cannot raise the dead.i do have compassion for these men but feel they should share this prior to an apppointment.There are certain providers that cater to special needs such as guys in wheelchairs etc....If you let us know in advance then we can be more prepared to make sure that we have a better understanding of what to expect. Thanks Victoria
but in all fairness to the gents with this issue,they may be looking for something else( example daty)or just some companionship..for you to be expected to be some miracle worker is not right and he should realize that..as far as him telling you before the appointment i ask you,would it really make a difference? he should be straight with you when you meet, however don't think that just becuase he can't get it up doesn't mean he can't have a good time..keep in mind also these guys probably feel down about it..your a professional( like i have to tell you that),improvise,have a back up plan for this situation..as far as the e.d. issue,i admit i had a time that it wouldn't funtion..i was on lexapro ( anti-depressent)as i was going thru a divorce at the time..well two years down the road it just wouldn't come up and i had no feeling in it..i discussed it with my dr and all he did was reach for the viagra perscription and sent me on my way..well at first i was bummed out,but gave it some serious thought which included my family medical history..my father is 83 and can still get it up( well so he says)..i asked why me?..anyways i started to figure one of the pills i was taking was cuasing this..i started by taking myself off the lexapro(shit, i was more depressed i had e.d.} and lo and behold its back in action!..sorry to spill my story in public..maybe it helps someone else out..i guess the point is do your best as i'm sure you would..rabbit
rabbit50 thanks for sharing your story I now have a new perpective and will take into consideration that the sometimes the journey is more important than the destination.Victoria
if anything,don't feel its you or something your doing or not doing..anybody who is very good in their profession always has plan b..thats what makes them stand out..as you all do
You are so correct about the feelings and then have to discuss all the details is even more unpleasant, I know it is for me!!!!!
Hey, when he arrives and your both chatting, drinking a glass of wine getting to know each other the issue is usually brought up and your ready to play I find things just all happen naturally... to me anyway, like you said he's there to play, you gave one example but as we know there's lots of things to do...All that kissin and cuddlin &&&&& it's not all about the erection!!!!
I really don't see a real need that he tell you before hand. I don't see how that makes for an issue for what he is paying for and the purpose of you being in this kind of work...I hate saying work I like to think of it as play!!!!lol
Should a gent tell you that it takes him a long time to cum?
Maybe it would be easier to come up with a check list for the gent to fill out during the reference checking stage. It could be a form applied to your email, so it would be automatic for a new client...
I just find some of these issues not important, I'm providing a service to gentleman and as long as he is clean, nice to me, and pays me..then it's all good...Just seems like sometimes we make things more difficult than they should be.
Terri, Yes you are right its just sometimes the bed can feel like a work bench rather than a passion palace. I still feel that it should be somthing we can openly talk about before the date. These men are spending alot so why not make sure they make the right choice as southwest airlines says " we know you have alot of choices so thank you for choosing us....I too love what I do but I also want them to have a great time nothing makes me feel worse than thinking I let them down in any way. Your reviews speak for themselves you really seeem to have a gift with the gents I'm sure i could learn alot from you....Victoria
Thank you Dear, but you too have great reviews, I'm just saying let the good times roll as they may and take things as they come rather than *circulate them....(*not sure if i got that work right)
When I know someone has been a good hobbyist and a gentleman everything else is secondary whether he has a loaded bank account or a once a month hobbyist...they are given the same GFE I know how to give!
I smoke and it's on my profile and someone doesn't want to see me for that reason than I'm ok with it...I've had gents that don't smoke but they did homework and know I do and has even offered me to do so...sometimes I do and sometimes I don't...but it's nice to know that I'm not being judged because I do.
I'm just very thankful for all the great guys that I have seen...I've only seen about 1 or 2 that I care not to see again....it is tough in this biz, they know so much of us and we really not of them. They get to judge us in a public forum and sometimes it overwhelming
hugs Terri
PS It would have been nice to talk to you the other night, but I know you had other people to see! take care!
Being one who suffers from ED due to medication, I'd sure be interested in some providers who "specialize" in our needs. I know I've seen some postings in the past.
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